What is Real Love

Some people think that I am telling my life story; others think that I am telling someone’s secrets. I say it’s none of your business, as long as the story is being told. The purpose of the story is to let people know that there is real drama in everyday life. So much drama, that we have to pick up a science fiction book and in our subconscious minds say that it’s only a story and no one was harmed. Well I guess that is the reason that I don’t watch soap operas, because the world is so filled with everyday drama that I don’t have time to watch and figure out someone else’s life story. I have definitely been through the storms, and so have many others, that why I write this to let most people know that they are not alone. Others go through the same everyday drama that you go through and think that it is only your problem. Is this the sign of the world being damned? Or, God not trying to tell us something, but putting it before our eyes only for us to make an excuse of the reason why it happens? You are the judge?

Early this morning Denise decides to sleep late, not only does she realize that the man that she has been seeing for six years, Clay, has been cheating on her, but she notices that his early routine has changed. He no longer gets up as early as he used to. Is it because the seasons have changed or because he no longer sees the other woman and doesn’t have to see her off to work anymore. This is me looking in and I am going to tell you what I see. I see a couple that has been together for so long and have made so many mistakes together that no matter what happens, all they know is each other. He isn’t going anywhere and se isn’t either. So why complain anymore just get use to the problem. If you haven’t got married in this long what makes you think that he will marry you in the long run, and who’s to say that this is what you both want anyway? This is the question that runs in the minds of woman everyday when will I get married and how will I know if he is the one. Like my great-grandma says, “You will know if he is the one or not, you can just tell.” Well thank God for great-grandma, but they don’t make them like great-grand daddy, may he rest in peace. This new breed of a man is very complex. I have never seen so many men that stay in the mirror more than woman do, not only do that , but get there hair done more than woman do. This new breed of brother is very suspicious; I just wish they only knew how much.