What Makes Marriages Sweet

 Issues concerning marriages as been raised from time immemorial in our societies. All over the world, one time or the other, people get wedded amidst of fun cheers and

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with parents, friends and well wishers. After that marriage begins proper with the couples involved, and that on its own is a whole new experience which in some cases works out  for some while many ended up worse and the end result is unhappiness and divorce. It is so disheartening to find out that couples which one joins in celebration of marriage ended up in less than a year of marriage, the question now is: what happened? What went wrong with the couples that were not discovered during courtship? This is a serious hullabaloo that should be addressed if marriages must last. From my interviews with couples with broken marriages realised that during courtship many got carried away by circumstances and did not take time to study their partners well before agreeing to say i do. In all, couples about to get married should endeavour to make sure that the following variables are in there relationship because they are what make marriages sweet:

STANDING FIRM WITH GOD’S DOCTRINE

The length and breadth of this is that they should be a believer, not just a church goer .For things to work out well for them, they should be able to build a healthy prayer life that will be a routine in their life such as praying together before and after bed so that when children comes along, they should pick such habits up from their parents.

UNDERSTANDING BETWEEN COUPLES

This is one major variable that should be present if a marriage is to be sweet. With perfect understanding of one another, couples will be able to tolerate each other’s flaw and get along even in the face of a raging storm, understanding strengthening the love between couples.

FORMING AN HABIT

Many couples don’t pay attention to this, and this is not healthy for their relationship. Habits such as eating, bathing and visiting places together sharing days experiences and having one dress codes goes a long way in helping couples understand each other better. This can go a long way to curb the men’s excesses such as hanging out late in Bars with friends, rather couples can occasionally throws a cocktail or dinner parties in their homes.

GOOD SEX

I decided to treat this issue last because this is one issue that as generated a lot of controversies in our societies and people tries to stray away from it using religion as a cover-up most especially in Africa. Sexual habits between couples shouldn’t be seen as filthy thing and should be exercise freely by those involved, gone are the days when the missionary style is in vogue, today sexual behaviours as taken a new shape in the society and couples should be the ones to practice them most. Variety as they say is the spice of life, so couples should try and import what they read into practical, trying out every style available under the globe, they shouldn’t be selfish and it should be a give for all thing.Sex should be given extra attention as it could act as a fuel for the marriage journey and we all know that if there’s no fuel in a car, it will take a miracle for the car to move. Couples shouldn’t spare anything; the game should be played to satisfaction for in place for the couple’s pleasure.

In conclusion, marriage is good, and should be given utmost attention, all the variables outline in this article are not the only things that makes it sweet, but it should be considered as the most important. For all couples out there, attention should be given to the points enumerated above and see if the outcome won’t be sweeter than they’ve ever experienced.