What Not to Say to the Opposite Sex When You are Married

When married it is essential that you pay close attention to relationships you have with people of the opposite sex, or same sex depending upon your sexual orientation, to be sure that no relationship is being misled or getting out of hand. There should never be anything said that could make your spouse think that it is more than it really is. You should never comment in any sexual way about someone other than your spouse nor should you ever speak with your spouse and constantly mention things about someone you know that is of the opposite sex. These things show your spouse that you are paying much to close attention to other people and may seem as though you are board with them.

Below is a list of common things that are said, that should not be said to other people when you are married:

1. “I like that shirt; it makes your chest look big”
2. “Those pants make your butt look cute”
3. “Hey there, you sure are looking good today”
4. “We need to spend some time together in my office”
5. “Your sandwiches are much better than my wife’s”
6. “I like your hair; it makes your beautiful face stand out”
7. “My wife never looks as good as you do”

Keep in mind that if you pay attention to your words, it can keep you out of arguments and keep your spouse from being overly jealous. If you show you can be trusted, then you will be trusted.