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What to do to Make your Girlfriend feel Special and Loved

Tips in being good to your girlfriend.

This is what to do to make your girlfriend feel special and loved.

First off you must stand up for your girlfriend no matter what. That means if you have to fight someone as long as its not a girl then do it. If you have to lose your reputation to keep the one you love then its worth it.

Another thing you can do if you and your girlfriend like to hold hands then you should hold hands when ever its possible. If you know she doesn’t wantto in front of certain ppl then don’t if she changes her mind the she will touch your hand and/or hold it then you know that its ok with her to hold hands.

Make your girlfriend feel loved and beautiful when she is sick or feeling depressed and try to do this in a romantic way so she can feel more loved then she would if you were just saying it some other time if she is looking her worst then still complement her on how beautiful she looks and if someone has something else to say then use the use the first thing said in this section and stand up for her.

You should brag about the things your girlfriend may have accomplished. This may make her feel awkward if she is around when you are saying it and possibly uneasy and /or embarrassed.

Now if you want to make her feel special then you must remember your anniversary and her birthday, so never forget it, if you know whats good for you.

If your girlfriend looks like she isn’t feeling good or like she is concerned and you ask her and she says something is bothering her and/or if she tells you then ask her “Is there anything i can do for you?” and if she says something then do it don’t hesitate unless its something like totally unthinkable like telling you to kill her in which case hold her and tell her that you would never do that but if there is more things you would like to say and its appropriate for the situation then say it but always say it in a soft voice or whisper it into her ear while holding her.

If your girlfriend has a cell phone and you know she is awake at that time and she doesn’t have anything she has to do the next day then call her just to say “I Love You” but if you don’t then don’t lie but sometime you just aren’t able to call her so its alright if you don’t do this particular thing it just varies from person to person as to what you do and also it depends on your girlfriend and if she will like that kind of thing or not.

There is always dancing close during a slow romantic song but remeber to not lose yourselves guys, and you know what I mean.

When the moment is right and you and your girlfriend are like watching a movie or something where you are sitting together close then you might want to try this, you could stroke your girlfriend’s hair for no reason at all as long as they don’t take it the wrong way because it can be interpreted as a sexual thing that mean that you want to do something besides what you are doing but usually this is just a show or affection but some girls misunderstand it so be careful.

Remember this, guys, cuz this is the one thing that you should always do. Never forget to listen to your girlfriend’s problems and successes.

And last but not least cuz I will be updating this list from time to time you should always make your girlfriend feel good about herself.

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  1. bob

    On April 28, 2008 at 2:53 pm

    sam, how can a trust someone who has awful grammar?

  2. Shawn

    On June 13, 2008 at 1:10 pm

    Now I do everything you have said, plus other things like back massages… The problem is, how am I supposed to feel if nothing is returned. what if I don’t get this same treatment back. Why doesn’t she feel like I need these things as well.

  3. Grant

    On June 17, 2008 at 3:09 pm

    She will feel shy, or dosnt know what to say, this could be her first proper relationship, she may need to get used to it and she will grow into giving u things back

  4. Misti

    On June 21, 2008 at 7:13 pm

    ok i know that this has nothing to do with the article but me and my boyfriend had sex my first time 4 days ago and it hurt like a mother!!! i cried the entire time and there was blood everywhere…i told him to slow down and he wouldnt bc he was really into it…now i dont know if i can trust himi!!! anyone wanna explain? are all guys like this?

  5. Andrew

    On June 22, 2008 at 8:04 am

    hey misti that is sad to hear and dont think all guys are like this most guys i know care more about the girl when having sex saying stuff like “is it ok” “feel good for u” my advice get a new bf but dont like loose faith in guys over 1 bad experience!

  6. Misti

    On June 23, 2008 at 6:42 pm

    thanks andrew…i know i should but i love him!! and he says he loves me…
    we havent had sex since then and he wants to but im just kinda afraid the same thing will happen…is there any different postions that might not hurt as bad? we did missionary guy on top normal stuff…but i felt kinda trapped…

  7. Branden

    On June 30, 2008 at 11:36 pm

    john is right right shawn, while being nice to her try to be a challenge for her, almost like hard to get but dont go overboard or she will then think you do nothing for her.

  8. laolu coker

    On August 21, 2008 at 6:11 am

    i love her and i want our relationship to last.her name is tosin oyewole

  9. Adi Krauthammer

    On August 28, 2008 at 5:25 pm

    My boyfriend Gavin arayus will be back from Tampa on Monday night to stroke my hair and hug me when I feel like to cry
    He will Say” Sweet heart do not cry I love you please do not get hurt


  10. johnny

    On October 8, 2008 at 5:46 am

    Tips were good, but you really got to work on the grammer dude.

  11. hassan

    On November 10, 2008 at 7:15 am

    i want to make a girlfriend in america how can i ake?

  12. sam123456789

    On November 17, 2008 at 10:58 pm

    Hey shawn just give it some time if nothing is returned at all then she may not be that interested in you but if even a little bit is returned then push forword and strive to better yourself if for nothing else then for her. =]

  13. Dave

    On November 21, 2008 at 5:53 am

    There’s this girl that I like since grade school, We talk alot and I would really like know more and I don’t know how. I have alot of shyness problems but when I did ask why she had always rejected me. She said that I concider you as a family. But I’m not related or anything and this girl is so beautiful and I really would like to be with her. What should I do. Please can any females or guys outthere with experience with to reply to this message. Thanks.

  14. NormalJoe

    On November 22, 2008 at 12:36 am

    If you have to read a blog on how to treat your girlfriend well then your either hopeless or a virgin robot. Guys please just use common sense and treat her the way you want to be treated…in less you like to be beat then don’t do that and go get some help.

  15. Murray

    On November 28, 2008 at 4:05 am

    I agree with Normal Joe. The person that type this is what they do to their girlfriend and all of us that’s reading this arent the same. So our girlfriends would probably prefer something different then what’s in this blog. You should know your girlfriend and you should know what she like, so I think its best to not do what other people do.

  16. funny

    On December 7, 2008 at 10:12 am

    thats why you googled it then joe?

  17. j.finnesse

    On December 22, 2008 at 3:22 pm

    yo dave bro im sorry but it sounds like theres no luck for u and this girl unless you change something about yourself thats making her feel too comfortable. when she says youre like family that means youre stuck in the friend zone which is a dangerous spot for someone like yourself to be in. to get out of the friend zone you have to not be that same loving caring guy that she is too comfortable with. try taking on the bad boy persona sounds corny usually works!

  18. Karis

    On January 8, 2009 at 1:09 pm

    Dave,maybe she has some feelings for you somewhere which are somewhat more than frienship related,you could think of it as the film ‘just friends’ where he’s sooo in love with his best friend, but he doesnt know what to say or how to say it, until he has enuf of being rejected and bullied so he moves away but returns some years later a complete changed man but starts to treat her like all her ex bfs but then he realises hes what shes wanted all the time, the guy that was always there for her the guy that makes her laff the sensitive guy that listens and talks about his problems to her, maybe if you stick in thier and just be her shoulder to cry on and be her best friend maybe one day she will realise that she has got feelings for you but never rush things just take each day as it comes and maybe calm down with asking her out, just be there. good luck

  19. johhny appleseed

    On January 20, 2009 at 6:50 pm

    yea… umm if you follow his advice… your girls gone…dont stroke her hair ha ha are you joking. move your fingers lightly over her neck.. most girls love their neck being touched and or bite her ear. just mix things up. problem with most people is they find one thing someone likes and sticks to that. just have fun dont be to shy or stuck up… show her you care.

  20. damon

    On January 22, 2009 at 6:33 pm

    ha ha i thought all the stuff stated was standard, im going elsewhere ;)

  21. Littlekid137

    On February 5, 2009 at 5:34 pm

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  22. Zman

    On February 22, 2009 at 10:06 pm

    Girls love to talk about themselfs so if u do this & get notin in return don’t fell down

  23. vikkyraj

    On March 12, 2009 at 3:28 am

    The person that type this is what they do to their girlfriend and all of us that’s reading this arent the same.We can only think & take desicion to clse to some one….

  24. sxyboy

    On March 20, 2009 at 3:58 am

    Hi everyone please help me. Me and my girl hafe a exaland relation ship but i hafe run out of idees i wand toe do something special for her but don’t know what toe do we are home alone and hafe no money what can i do to treat her please help. Thanks

  25. ashish

    On April 5, 2009 at 3:06 am

    i want to make a girlfriend.please send me id.ashish

  26. Lewis

    On April 30, 2009 at 2:35 pm

    My word. The grammar across this entire page is MIND-BLOWINGLY bad.
    However on a tpoic-related note, i think, if anything, most of these things seem petty robotic. And, if this is all you guys do to keep your girlfriends then, i wouldnt expect them to stick around for long. what happened to good old chivalry? I agree with the standing up for her in all circumstances, whether you’re going to get your arse handed to you or not. i just, think most girls need something a little bit more.

    try writing them a birthday card, but instead of buying one, make one. i mean yeah, cheesy as anything, but she’ll appreciate the sentiment. And when your writing her card, don’t stick to “Dear honey, happy birthday, love lewis”… fill the entire card, on both sides writing about how lucky you are to be with her. In fact, why not just writ her a letter? about absolutely anything, just outline how you feel about her, what your thinking at that exact moment, what your doing, whether you’re hungry or not. just make a genuine from the heart/gut message. i mean COME ON… who doesnt like getting mail.Let her lend a Hoodie or a t-shirt. infact… even better… why not just forget one at her house an when she tells you… just say… “you keep it” i have no doubt she’d end up sleeping in it… or wearing it to lie about in.

    one thing i did… just because i have a small talent for art, was a scribbled a heart onto a bit of paper, i made it look nice, all… arty… and i slipped into her purse one day when she forgot it my house. when she opened her purse the next day, a heart dropped out with “i love you” on the back. and she loves it :) .

    i dont know… im just throwing a couple of examples at you all… just batting one your way… just… make sure that you don’t ONLY follow what that guy up there is saying. because, chances are its just not good enough.


  27. Lewis

    On April 30, 2009 at 2:42 pm

    hahaha after slating everybody elses grammar i didn’t really do myself any justice :P i appologise


  28. Anynymous

    On May 19, 2009 at 2:00 pm

    Ridiculous how everyone spells grammar like “grammer” and whines at others to make them improve theirs. I know not every country has proper educational offers, but seriously, don’t tell others to do what you can’t do yourself.

  29. C

    On May 25, 2009 at 11:47 am

    I do all of these things for my girlfriend and i do even more but shes realy the best thing in my whole world and it was love at first sight but took me a year to get with her but we were best friends for the year like
    anyway i just wanna do even more to show her how much i love her
    any ideas ???

    thanks guys

  30. Tom

    On May 26, 2009 at 4:07 pm

    women are extra crazy!!!

  31. Dean

    On June 13, 2009 at 8:23 pm

    I sometimes wish my girlfriend would be the girl of my dreams. We started to like each other at this one special moment, and we knew it would be a long and hard relationship, but girls get tired. They need to be more loved and loved and once you can’t love even more, she grows tired and stops liking you. She may not know what to do, but just keep going. Never stop, cause then you lose everything

  32. Help me please

    On June 16, 2009 at 11:05 am

    I find i dont make my girlfriend laugh enough and its starting to ruin our relationship please give me some advice and tips

  33. nick

    On July 8, 2009 at 5:55 pm

    thnx these sound like great tips:)

  34. nick

    On July 8, 2009 at 5:58 pm

    also if you could give me some tips on how not to be boring with my girlfriend i dont wanna ruin the moment of a good time i want her to always feel special

  35. sam

    On July 22, 2009 at 4:44 am

    Yeah!they realy sound great.

  36. Batee7'a

    On August 9, 2009 at 2:14 am

    hey everybody
    I iz from afghanistan and i has 3 wifes i love all of my wifes they all love me too, i have sex with everyone of them everyday, and sometims with all them at one time , and they all happy with me and happy with my big penes, when they ask for love just have sex with them they will alwys love yoo

  37. Colin

    On August 23, 2009 at 11:12 am

    If She Dosnt Wanna Hold Hands Around Other People Then Wtf? Why Not I Mean Unless She Cares About People More Than U , Or Is Just Wanting To Seem Single Around Other Guys Then Hold That Damn Hand And Claim Her Around Other Guys. Because You Dont Wanna Lose Her To Some Other Loser Lookin At Her Ass.

  38. steve

    On January 12, 2010 at 7:45 am

    haha obviously none of us r experts on the situation cuss we all googled it

  39. Derek

    On February 15, 2010 at 11:05 pm

    Hey ummm my girlfriend have been fighting for about a week and it just won’t stop, any ideas how to stop the fighting

  40. two trips xD

    On February 17, 2010 at 11:02 pm

    this is bull sh!t i have tryed this stuff and i feel she dont want me even tho she says she dose i love her so much if u have any gd advice email god i need help she goes on about me being perfect for her and im the 1 but it dont feel like it

  41. just plain and simple me

    On February 25, 2010 at 1:46 am

    Why is everyone wo worried about grammar? this is a site to help relationships, not a language class…

  42. Amit

    On March 4, 2010 at 9:36 am


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  43. Rich

    On April 21, 2010 at 8:29 pm

    hello guyz i really liked your contribution and am real happy am here with y’all….but i think i need a help on this one…well i being in school with a lady and we both fall in love and agreed to loved ourself…unfortunately we had sex and after that she does not care about me any more and am really confused and hurt and want to forget her…Please wht shud i do….my email is and my number is +233271619030


    On April 25, 2010 at 10:09 am

    Dont ever think a woman dont care because deep down there’s a heart and a little
    voice that eats her up inside because of the pain or sorrow she went through
    women are fragile, you gotta be careful, tender and loving at all times
    you wanna think the things u do are nice, sometimes the little tings
    are nicer!!!!!!!!!!

  45. Neharika singh

    On September 22, 2010 at 10:52 am

    I have a sensible bf . we r in relationship since since from 3 months.we have a distant relationship. we intract with each other with the help of phone. sometimes I hurt him & he too. but i think he still did not understand me . Actully he have mind but never know how to use it. he belives on the sayings of his friends including his x-girlfriend(now friend). He do quarrels with me. Sometimes before he told a personal matter of our relation in front of his friends.He belive on the saying of his x-girlfiend than me. But I know he loves me madly.what can i do please help me?

  46. Neharika singh

    On September 22, 2010 at 11:01 am


  47. tommy tooken

    On September 29, 2010 at 11:20 am

    for mistii all the way at the top just have sex slow and u will like it … and for u aove mee just ask himm talk to him

  48. Psych

    On October 6, 2010 at 5:36 am

    well we all have problems with girls because they are so damn complicated, they are impossible to read and they always will expect more out of us than they give themselves. This is something that i have found to never change. The best you can do is to treat your girlfriend the nicest you can and tell her how beautiful she is as often as you can. Dont just tell her you love her. Tell her why you love her, give her reasons. Girls do love attention and love when you tell them something about themselves that you like. They love to hear about themselves and talk about themsleves, do these things as much as you can and try not to worry about how much she is giving compared to you, because its never gonna be near as much. It wont be in any relationship so just get used to the fact.

  49. psihomodopop

    On November 27, 2010 at 7:53 pm

    Great article!

  50. nikhil

    On December 2, 2010 at 2:07 pm

    Neharika…yup wtz d problem dear..?

  51. zach

    On December 8, 2010 at 12:08 am

    hey my girlfriend loves me and i love her but ya i dont think she knows i love her enough

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    On March 21, 2011 at 5:56 pm

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  53. jessie j

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  54. Bryce

    On April 30, 2011 at 11:00 pm

    what do you do to keep a girlfriend cause like after 2 days my girlfriend broke up with me for no reason and, i was kinda like pissed!!!!

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