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What to Do When Your Boyfriend Cheats on You

What would you do if you find out that your boyfriend has been cheating on you? You have a few options.

What would you do if you find out that your boyfriend has been cheating on you? You have a few options. One is to break up, another is to fix it, and the last one is to stay anyway. There will be women that will break up and then some will fix it and then some will stay with their man anyway. I tend to think that breaking up is the best way to deal with a cheater. I believe that cheating is not right in a committed relationship and that person doesn’t care about you anymore. If they care about you they would be good to you. If they’re good to you then they would not cheat on you.

You can try to fix your relationship like Jenny Sanford or Hilary Clinton but it’s not like you’re going to end up with a good relationship. You can try to repair it if you have kids and it’s worth repairing the relationship. Sometimes people have kids together and getting a divorce or breaking up isn’t the best option. They try to repair their poor relationship but maybe they will end up breaking up one day. Once someone cheats on you, it sends a strong message and that is that they no longer care about you. They like other people because if they still care they wouldn’t cheat on you. If you neglect them then you can still repair the relationship. Men cheat sometimes if you neglect them. You choose to do other things with your life and you leave your spouse neglected. People often neglect their spouse in relationship when they have been married for too long. Sometimes you can make a person want to leave you or cheat on you. Your action has a reaction too.

 If you think that you can repair a relationship then you should give it a try. I’m afraid that men will repeat their offense sometimes. The other option is to stay with the cheater anyway. Not a lot of women will stay with a cheater, the one that stays are either really in love or they have no where to go. I knew a girl who stayed with a cheater because she had no where to go. She was a young and lovely girl who ran away from home. There are many women who are dependent upon their husband and they have no where to go. They can’t do anything but stay with a cheater. This is why it’s important to be able to take care of yourself so that you don’t have to stay with a cheater. Men that cheat often repeat their offenses and you shouldn’t be too easy with them.

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  1. Lily River

    On September 17, 2009 at 10:51 pm

    I have a wonderful guy who wouldn’t cheat on me for the world! I am greatful and blessed and I pray that you have a good guy who will never do you wrong. You don’t deserve it.

  2. miss. steph

    On October 1, 2009 at 7:40 pm

    I’m a very young and youthful female teenager and i’ve been having problems with my ex. we broke up the begining of this year and i broke up with him obviously because he was cheating. and now we don’t even talk to each other any more. and i always try to avoid him, because it’s so award when i’m around him. i always see him flirting with other girls though, and he’s known for cheating in his previous relationships. i don’t even know what i was thinking when i went out with him.
    anyway do u think think he still likes me or even cares about me any more?

  3. Ray

    On November 18, 2009 at 11:45 am

    My partner cheated on me many years ago. I forgave her, but it took a long time to get over it.
    Years later we are still together,our relationship is stronger. We succeeded because we both were commited to making it work!

    An affair doesn’t have to mean it’s the end of the relationship.

  4. Bea

    On December 29, 2009 at 9:32 pm

    Im only 21 but my boyfriend had I have had a history that dates back 6 years. Throughout those 6 years, I was always the one more in love than him. He screwed me over, took advantage of me, and broke my heart so many times over. Then came the last straw where he cheated on me and I was ready to move on from him. Now that the tables had turned, he wanted me back. I think because I no longer wanted him. He went through all the stuff I had to go through. He went through sleepless nights, seeing me with other people, not replying to his phone calls. He was extremely persistent in working things out, and even more remorseful for everything he had done to me… because now he was feeling it for himself for the very first time in his life. Well long story short we are back together now. He is like a whole new person, and for the first time I feel appreciated and genuinely loved. I think it takes a lot to come back from all the hurt, and work for something you believe in. But im still young, who knows what’s just around the corner…

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