What Women Find Sexy
by You might be handsome, you might be buff with a pretty face and nice arms, but are you sexy? Maybe, maybe not. Physically attractive is a good start, don’t get me wrong, but it is certainly not everything, and one can be very sexy without being beautiful, guy or gal.
What do women find sexy, besides the physical? Ever wondered why that short, balding guy in glasses is with the hot blond twelve years his junior? Money? Oh, that’s possible, but probably not, unless he has LOTS of money, and every guy with questionable looks and a hot girlfriend is not a billionaire. And every hot blond can’t be bought with something as simple as money. So what are the things that got him the girl?
- Confidence. I can’t express how sexy it is. Guys think that girls like the ones who treat them bad, not the “nice” guys. Truth is, those guys have confidence bordering on arrogance, sometimes going right over that edge. Women find that incredibly sexy, even when they know that guy is bad for them. When a guy knows what he wants and knows he can get it, it overshadows a whole lot of disreputable behavior on their part. You don’t have to be a jerk to be confident, though. Nice and confident are not mutually exclusive and can serve you well.
- A Sense of Humor. Yes, it’s true. Women love a guy who can make them laugh. Drew Carey is a great example, money aside. I guarantee that he got laid before he hit it big and that is not a pretty man. Everyone loves to laugh. Laughter makes us feel good, so does sex, and the two go great together.
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- Respect. I’m not talking about putting a girl on a pedestal, though that might get you somewhere with some girls. Respect means that the guy in the equation actually cares what the girl in the equation is thinking and cares about what she wants. Listening, being thoughtful-those things are important. A girl likes confidence, but arrogance is boring in the extreme. You can be sensitive and masculine all at the same time! Trust me, girls love that. Be sensitive to a woman’s needs in bed, out of bed-whatever. You will have her hooked.
- Loyalty. That doesn’t mean just loyalty to her, which is important. Although, I have to tell you that if you cheat, she’s not going to find that sexy. No, I mean loyalty to friends, to family, to children. Women, people in general, will notice how you treat the people closest to you and will make decisions accordingly. Seeing a man playing with his child? Thats sexy.
Any of the those things are sexy in a guy. If you can manage more than one-yummy.
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Post Commenthfj
On June 29, 2009 at 7:20 am
According to your article, i must be the sexiest man in the world. Good article, and my confidence is at an all-time high. Thanks.
Amanda N Miller
On June 29, 2009 at 9:48 am
Nice piece.
s hayes
On June 29, 2009 at 12:58 pm
Great article – some very good points in there x
I’m with you – laugh & play together = stay together, looks are Not a big issue
rajeev bhargava
On June 29, 2009 at 1:11 pm
100% true and these tips are going to be an invaluable help for anyone in doubt on how to present themselves to the opposite sex. i really liked this article alot.
Phill Senters
On June 29, 2009 at 1:25 pm
Nice article,Annie. lots of great tips.
Deep Blue
On June 29, 2009 at 4:25 pm
Great tips. Well written.
kate smedley
On June 30, 2009 at 12:56 am
Annie, all of this is so true, we should send it to all the guys we know! Great article.
Joie Schmidt
On June 30, 2009 at 1:01 am
Very good article.
Blessings.
Sincerely,
-Liane Schmidt.
daisy
On June 30, 2009 at 11:10 am
My sweetie is low in the confidence dept, but he loves it when I boost his ego on all the other points. We laugh often, he is extremely respectful of everyone he is around and also very loyal. He has three kids by a previous marriage and yes, I love to watch him – love his children and other family members. I’d add that is it important to have his own friends. Even if it is just one very close friend. He’s the sexiest man I’ve ever known and he’s short and bald… yummy!!
Daisy Peasblossom
On June 30, 2009 at 4:19 pm
I find gentle honesty pretty darned sexy. I’m not talking about the “I hate to tell you this, but…” kind of honesty. I’m talking about a guy who stands by his word, in both personal and business dealings; and if he has to tell you that a particular costume isn’t the most flattering garment you’ve ever worn, he can manage to do it with gentleness and finesse that recognizes that maybe there hasn’t been money or laundry or clothing for a while.
Mr Ghaz
On June 30, 2009 at 11:08 pm
Excellent post!!..well written and nice topics as well..I really LIKED it..Thanx for sharing.
Debra.
On July 4, 2009 at 5:30 pm
Excellent article, Annie! I totally agree!