What Women Like in Men

The Look

Of course, there are the obvious things: we want men who are generally well groomed, though not too well. We still want to be prettier than our men. However, here I am talking about how a man looks at a woman. Why is it that some men just have that melt-your-bones-come-hither look and others do not? I think it’s how they look at you. There is the straight into the eye, wide open lids look that says “I am interested and I am honest and open to you.” That’s good, but it won’t have me swooning. What I want is that slightly crinkled corners, demi-amused, looking up from under the upper lid intense look. That’s the look that says “I am totally picturing you naked and I like it!”

The Tie

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Yeah, I know, most men hate wearing them, but believe me, ties are sexy. Here, it’s all about being tactile. Women like to play with their hands and what could be nicer than a soft piece of silk that is hanging on a man’s chest. It’s good for stroking, pulling toward me for a kiss, untying… Just take my word for it.

Hands

I know you’ve heard this one before, but it’s all true. Hands are super important. These are the hands that will hold mine. I can’t talk about shape (though obviously I have my favourites) because you can’t change the shape of your hand. However, what I can say is we don’t like dirt under the fingernails! I don’t care that you are a diesel mechanic, I want those hands to be squeaky clean when they touch me. Oh, and they need to be big and definitely not pudgy, and not dry. Use that hand cream so that when you take my hand in yours for the first time, the skin is soft and the touch is firm and protective. That includes when we shake hands for the first time. Hold my hand tight, but without crushing mine.

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So, don’t wipe that tear, give me the sexy look, let me play with your tie, and hold my hand and let’s see where that lead us!