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What Women Want?

The age old question that has been puzzling men all over the world for hundreds of years.

Many men have spent their entire lives trying to figure it out to no avail. I’m not sure any of what I’m about to tell you is really a secret but it could honestly help you in your relationship with your lady. 

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Women want trust in their relationships. She wants to know that you can go out for a night on the town with the boys and still come home to her loving arms. She also wants to know that she can go out with her girlfriends as well and not have to worry about you being jealous about it. They want to be able to tell you anything and they want you to be able to do the same with them. Trust and honesty are always a key factor in any relationship. 

Women like to be complimented on both their looks and their intelligence. I’m sure you’ve heard the question “Do I look fat in this?” before, most men have. The reason they ask this is that they need to know that YOU still find them attractive regardless of what they think or anyone else thinks. They just need positive reinforcement from their partner to feel better about themselves. 

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Another thing that women want is intimacy. Even though you might not think so all women want to be ravaged by their man every now and then. This dates back to the time of the most primal thought of the human race. Be intimate, be exciting but also be respectful. Women appreciate confidence and sexual expression no doubt but probably the most important thing today that a woman wants is respect. You have to think back when women didn’t have many of the privileges that they have today and it still goes on to a certain extent. 

Well, that is a few things that women want and lord knows that nobody will ever figure it all out but if you follow a few of the guidelines written here you will certainly be ahead of the game. 

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  1. Luffy12

    On April 27, 2009 at 7:52 pm


    wootwoot

  2. Anne McNew

    On April 27, 2009 at 8:11 pm


    whewwwww nice post

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    On April 27, 2009 at 11:15 pm


    I have spent Janu’s entire lives trying to figure it out to no avail.

  4. Glynis Smy

    On April 28, 2009 at 12:44 am


    :) good article.

  5. Rajan

    On April 28, 2009 at 3:20 am


    Great article…

  6. kate smedley

    On April 28, 2009 at 5:01 am


    good article!

  7. Debra.

    On April 28, 2009 at 8:44 am


    Interesting piece. Very good read!

  8. Debra.

    On April 28, 2009 at 8:44 am


    Interesting piece. Very good read!

  9. estrella 2008

    On May 1, 2009 at 9:52 pm


    Este articulo esta super saludos.

  10. Bunnygotblog

    On May 6, 2009 at 1:58 pm


    women don’t want to feel like objects or a man’s property.They both should respect each other and support each other.

    Going out for a drink is fine with out your mate but I don’t feel it necessary for several hours all night long with out the other.

    If I one requires an all night out with out them every week.It is only going to become more frequent because they haven’t grown up.

  11. Used to be Shelly

    On May 8, 2009 at 11:13 pm


    Nice of you to notice. You got a lot of good tips in there.

  12. sally two tears

    On May 24, 2009 at 7:50 pm


    Nonsense, we’re all creatures of habit, some good some bad.. the bad habits (i.e the ones that cause relationship strife) are usually based in coping mechanisms that are unhealthy.. she/he knows this and will defend their failing to route them out(i.e change him/her). This prolific infantilism spreads wide so anything that helps in this subterfuge is what he/she wants (i.e tell me what I want to hear). rarely are people able to make a choice to sacrifice what they want for what someone else “needs” and not what they “want”. That is what we all want, someone to sacrifice for us and not complain.

  13. Figs

    On May 25, 2009 at 4:35 pm


    I guess it all comes down to confidence, and compromise.

    Men and women want to go out and have fun with their friends, flirt, and feel like they are still attractive. It is to both sex’ benefit. The problem, is that men and women seem to have a hard time letting another person do what they want.

    Controlling = not fun

    My gf and I have an understanding: she lets me do what I want (as long as I’m careful and considerate of her health) and I let her do what she wants (same criteria). It takes a lot of balls/ovaries to be so confident as to let your significant other be free and know they will always come back to you.

    Just because you love someone, doesn’t mean you own them.

  14. Brian Burke

    On July 4, 2009 at 3:13 pm


    I’m sorry but the last thing women want is complete honesty from a man. I’m not saying anything about cheating or any of that outright destructive stuff. That’s all just bad news. I’m talking about the day to day small stuff. Like “Dinner was great, honey” or “Those new shoes are great, honey” or “yeah honey brown looks great on you”. Men lie constantly because it is the key to a happy marriage. If men were completely honest within the confines of a marriage it would be like the death of a thousand cuts.

  15. Jenna

    On July 31, 2009 at 2:23 pm


    The advice is good albeit predictable. I do, however, wish to point out that women do NOT secretly desire to be \”ravaged\” as was stated in this article. So many writers use this word out of context. It means: \’to work havoc; do ruinous damage\’. Women do, however, desire to be \’ravished\’ and this might have been a better word to use.

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    On August 2, 2009 at 6:52 am


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  17. Terry

    On October 10, 2010 at 5:34 am


    And yet they expect loving, understanding behavior when they turn off the sex spigot. Ladies, reward your guys for being good people, rather than rewarding the lunkhead d1cks who treat women poorly. You’re horribly misguided for going for the lunks.

  18. george

    On October 10, 2010 at 9:51 am


    pretty women want a pretty boy, but there aren\’t that many pretty boys. So they act like bitches, until getting drunk enough at a bar to sleep with someone that has \’personality\’ really just manipulative scumbag.

  19. SCAQ Tony

    On December 27, 2010 at 4:21 pm


    OMFG – Now asked your self this: If the above article perfectly matches what you as a woman need and want, what do you think a man would need and want to fulfill all of THAT.

    How much would you have to contribute to the relationship? Would you have to keep one eye closed so to speak? How about your weight? How about your attitude? How much do you complain each day? What would THAT man want?

  20. gap year programs

    On November 28, 2011 at 10:32 am


    all girls should read this.

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