What Women Want

At a young age, I was always good at reading people. Even so, I can honestly say, women have been the hardest to figure out. The single group in which we call “women” have some of the weirdest trends (at least to us guys) that I’ve seen. If you want a girlfriend, or at least want you relationship to last, you should have a good understanding of the general dos and don’t for women.

Love

Whether you love a girl or not, a man should always have a very good understanding of love. Most guys think “I love you” itself says it all. But after months and months of just saying those three words, women want something new and a newer approach to your verbal oath of affection. Love is a word that bundles every good adjective about the person, and every good thing inside of the person saying it. Love has become such a cliche nowadays it makes me sick. Girls want to know when YOU say it, it’s not a cliche genre and it’s truly meaningful.

Boredom

I recommend a full schedule. Girls like things to do. Most of them get bored extremely easy, so when you with them, make sure you got the day planned out. And every other time or so, add in some “blank” time, or unplanned time where you can ask her what she would like to do for the time being. Girls think guys ALWAYS want to be in control. So let her pick what she wants to do, showing that your open minded and don’t have a man ego.

Yes Means No and No Means Yes

This ones a big one. When a guy asks a girl a serious question, sometimes, the girl won’t give an authentic answer. They do this because either A. they are angry or B. it’s a test and they want to see how well you know them….and if it’s both DON”T GET IT WRONG! Guys have a tendency of messing up stupid easy stuff that if they got right, it would show that they not only cared and payed close attention, but you do know them and could guess an every move to make them smile and be happy.

The Little Stuff

Girls always say that buying them stuff won’t make a difference. They claim money doesn’t matter. That is true to a certain extent. Girls absolutely love little things. Especially when you have a full schedule. It lets them know that after a full days work, your not gonna come home, lay down, drink a beer, and watch Chad Pennington throw 5 interceptions in a playoff game. It helps them realize how important they are that even in a full days work, you still thought about them and bought them flowers, or wrote a poem, or something small, affectionate and sweet. It’s like a math equation. 2×2=4….not that much. 2×2x2×2x2×2x2×2x2×2x=a much larger number. All them 2’s represent the small things in which add up to a great foundation to a healthy relationship.

Overall

Overall don’t be a boring guy or an average Joe. Girls want to know they have a one of a kind guy that can’t be found anywhere else. Girls like what they can’t have a lot of times, so make em feel lucky but treat them like a queen. Next, know what love is. Have a funny side to yourself but have a serious side that is passionate. Next is pay attention. Read between the lines and pay close attention to detail. Girls speak broad deliberately sometimes to see if you’ll pick up..be ready. Do the little things..it just make them feel good. Oh and by the way, most girls don’t want a fairytale princess life. Most of them are just as fallible and have made many mistake. If one comes across to perfect, it may scare them away because they’ll think your to good for them, or they don’t deserve you. So do little stuff that lets them know that your not Mr perfect. Afterwards, never be afraid to apologize!

To the Ladies

Ladies, if us guys mess up on this stuff once in a while, cut us some slack. Some of us do try very hard. Especially a guy like me who tries extremely hard to do what I can do for my beloved. So if we mess up, give us some rope (not to hang ourselves ha ha) but some room to fix our mistake. Because with some encouragement, we’ll eventually fix it.