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What’s Your Turn On? Everyone Has One

What is it that makes you attracted to him? We all have that turn on button, but we have a turn off one, too.

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We (my best friend & I) loved to dance, (we still do) and in our youth, we danced at clubs in Hempstead, Elmont, East Meadow, and in Roosevelt. Roosevelt, the childhood home of Howard Stern & Eddie Murphy. At any rate, We would dance at the Paraglide and My Father’s Place, not to drink mind you, or to pick up guys, but to dance. Back in those days, everyone danced and were really good at it.

It was then, that I learned a very important turn on button for me. I discovered that I was attracted to guys with a space between their teeth. Now I’m not talking about a missing tooth, or anything like that. I’m saying a small space between their two front teeth is a big attraction, to me.

Johnny G. had just that and he dancing was superb, another turn on. He was from Astoria and had a friend named Rabbit. I never knew his real name, but as I recall, he was funny and danced very well, too.  I dated Johnny for a few weeks, but alas, the turn off button was discovered soon after our first date.

Back in the day, I could make out for hours, as I guess most of us could and Johnny liked kissing, too. We were never intimate, we didn’t go out together long enough. Getting back to the kissing. He was a good kisser as I believe I was, as well; however, Johnny liked ears. He liked them so much that he slobbered all over them. I guess that’s what they think is sexy in Queens. Where I was raised we never made such a ta-do over ears. Johnny did, and he didn’t lasta long time in my life, because of the ear thing. Yet, I think of the space between his teeth, often.

Shy men are a turn on for me. I like the guy who stands back and observes everyone else. I am not attracted to the noisy, bold, brazen guy, who believes he is all that. The shy guy is self assured, calm, and able to handle situations, and I like that about a man. I also like broad backs and thick thighs.

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  1. sandie

    On October 7, 2009 at 4:37 pm


    i used to look for guys with a good body, fit and intellient, could look after himself like cook, iron, wash his own clothes in a washing machine, dance was good, but even though most of the men i met in a club danced they hated to dance, it was like you are on your own, dark hair, tall and passonate and thoughful helps, a lot of men i have had walk in front and you are miles behind them.Thanks for sharing.

  2. tasha kazuki

    On October 21, 2009 at 6:26 pm


    A great mind, passionate in everything he does and has a good sense of humor… my turn ons. Thanks for sharing your views.

  3. Fatema

    On March 14, 2010 at 7:12 am


    I am so greatful that I was created a female. I have never felt opressed or held back by any male or another woman.

    We like to have men around. We like the chalange of calming the savage beast. We like to calm them and reap the rewards
    of the calming process. We like the way they look at us and when we realize that we could get anything we want from him, at that specific moment, we smile. We are all Cleopatra at one time or another in our life time.

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