Why a Married Man Prefers a Single Girlfriend

Obviously there are nice, decent, caring, honest men who do not cheat.  But we are talking about the others now, the ones who do.  Many of them prefer to have relationships with single women rather than married women.  Why?  You want to know why married men prefer single women.  The married man rarely seems to be bothered about cheating on his spouse.     And quite often he has not given a lot of thought to whether or not affairs are worth it.  Probably because they are only thinking about the fun part and not the problems or what might happen later.

*   They can go around to where the woman lives.  Married women will say they cannot take him back there because hubby is there or might come in.  They have somewhere to meet and to go to bed and have sex together in privacy without paying for hotels.  Saves a lot of money and far better than expecting her to make do with a quick tumble behind the bushes or in the car.

*   They can phone her there without fear of her saying she cannot talk or her hubby picking up the phone or listening in. This makes it a lot easier to contact her without problems or obstacles.

*   They hate to share. Even though he is married and has a wife at home he hates the idea that she has sex with someone else or sees another man.  Partly because of problems such as sexually transmitted diseases and the safety needed but also because he wants her to only love him and want him.

*   Meeting her friends or family is relatively easy as he can keep the two lives separate.  If the woman is married she might know a friend of a friend or be related to a neighbour, causing problems.

*   When the woman is single they can tell themselves she is in love with him, even if she is not and he is not in love with her.  It makes him feel important and the main thing in her life.  If he is sharing her with another man, her children or a busy career it is not quite so ego boosting.

*  She can fit in with his odd and erratic visits.  He does not have to worry that on the one evening he is free she is busy and cannot escape.  Whenever he is able to fit her in she can accommodate him timewise.

There are a lots of disadvantages to it but there are benefits to being the other woman.

I have been a private relationship expert and life coach for many years, helping many rich and famous people sort out their lives.  I can sort out yours too.  See my website at carmelbrulez.homestead.com.