Why a Real Women Cheats – Self Help

You have your women, that when they start a relationship they are in it short term, for the money, fame and even worse the sex. This woman isn’t someone that can be trusted and more likely when time comes will break a heart or even devastated a soul. But the funny part of that is she is the one that finds the good men. Then you have your women that are honest, faithful and loyal but sad to know heart gets stepped on and ripped apart. She is what we call a “REAL GOOD WOMAN” and when crossed, used and abuse can be turned in to a heartless, over protected of who she is and what she stand for “BITCH” Her spirits are broken and her heart is something that takes years of mending. A real woman will only put up with so much before the bitch in her comes out. When a real woman takes her time out to finally find a man that gives her what her current situation lacks and she hits her man with a sludge hammer to heart, it is because she lacks something he just wasn’t willing to open his eyes up to see. She yearns for something more emotional than financial. Most men has gotten really upset when it came to who they caught her with. Maybe the guy isn’t attractive and leaves him pondering why is she doing it. Men on the other hand they act of actions and think with their penis. They could have the best woman in the world but will still hurt her emotionally and mentally. They know that they are not choosing to cheat because they lack something but doing because its that moment without thinking about consequences. But a woman when she cheats, she actually thought the situation out, prepared herself and is doing it because she wants something that makes her happy and fulfill what she needs. I am a woman and I have seen and heard it all and I am not going to lie I have cheated on my ex husband but it wasn’t for satisfaction to my sex drive but satisfaction to my character and mind stability. And when I did it I told the truth, no hiding it from no one. So when you ask yourself why a real woman cheats out of no where who loves you and has been loyal to you, you have to look at yourself and question what is it that caused the emotional hurt you are enduring. Not saying that its right because too wrongs don’t make a right but I am just helping you to prevent what can caused turmoil in your life.