Why are People Afraid of Marriage

Marriage is a common thing for some people while others will not want it. Why are people afraid of marriage? I think that there are some people that like the single life and they don’t like the married life. I’m one of the examples on why people don’t want to get marry. I’m almost thirty and I’m still single. I don’t really enjoy the thought of a married life even though I know that I’m supposed to get marry sometimes near the future. If I have an option, I would rather not be married. I like to stay single because I have too many things to do but in this two incomes world, you have to get marry.

It’s hard to live when you have no support from your spouse at all. I think it’s just something that we all need. However, I think it will be lonely if I stay single for too long. We all need companionships even though it takes such a long time to find that special someone. Even if you do find them, you end up with problems anyway and then you would break up. Even the best guy out there can give you problems. I hardly ever had a relationship where I don’t fight or don’t end up breaking over little things. I learned that relationship is very fragile and we tend to break up over every little thing.

 I’m afraid of marriage because I think I will lose my freedom once I’m married. I can’t call up my guys friends and go drinking. I can’t sleep until 12 noon and wake up to a bowl of chocolate sundae. I can’t leave the house the way I wanted to be. I can’t stay in a room all day by myself and write for my websites. Someone will need to spend time with me or see me. When I’m with him, I will need to be a partner too. I can’t do that because I have so many responsibilities already. I can’t be responsible for another person when I have so much on my own to worry about. I think this is the reason why I haven’t been wanting to be with men. I have so much responsibilities that I can’t think about men at all.