A brief summary on why relationships do not last long.
In an early stage of a relationship, you will feel excited. When you gone too far, both of you will encounter problems. We are humans and definitely humans are not perfect. You can never acquire all attitudes of an ideal partner, but you can grow, learn and change.
Falling out of love is one reason why love fails. In some cases, people who fall out of love experienced too much pain and heartaches. In the long run , they will wake up one day to the fact that they are not anymore in love with their partner.
Another is lack of proper communication. It plays an important part of a relationship because good communication brings you closer together. If your relationship lacks communication, it may lead to misunderstanding and misunderstanding may lead to arguments and arguments may lead to break- ups.
Some people abused their partner physically and emotionally. Why? Because they feel that if they do bad things to their partner, they will still be loved, but they don’t know that bad things makes their partner stronger and a strong person can easily find the right path and move on with their life without the abused partner.
Trust is one thing that makes a relationship last, but a relationship will last if both trust each other. If somehow, infidelity, lies and broken promises come into your relationship, the trust will be damaged but you can always rebuilt it. In rebuilding trust, it’s hard and it takes time, but you must be patient enough to save your relationship.
A partner who is honest to himself is also honest to his partner. If both of you are honest, probably, there will be no doubts.
If you are really in love with the person no matter what he is, what kind of attitude he has, you will still love him. Nobody is perfect, love can wait, love can change you from bad to good. Love really grows, I believe on that. If your partner doesn’t change his insecurities at all after so many years, I don’t think it’s love.
Love is priceless. Love can make you strong. Love can make you weak. Always remember that Love is a gift. Don’t withhold it because it will come unexpectedly.