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Why Do Love Fails?

A brief summary on why relationships do not last long.

In an early stage of a relationship, you will feel excited. When you gone too far, both of you will encounter problems. We are humans and definitely humans are not perfect. You can never acquire all attitudes of an ideal partner, but you can grow, learn and change.

Falling out of love is one reason why love fails. In some cases, people who fall out of love experienced too much pain and heartaches. In the long run , they will wake up one day to the fact that they are not anymore in love with their partner.

Another is lack of proper communication. It plays an important part of a relationship because good communication brings you closer together. If your relationship lacks communication, it may lead to misunderstanding and misunderstanding may lead to arguments and arguments may lead to break- ups.

Some people abused their partner physically and emotionally. Why? Because they feel that if they do bad things to their partner, they will still be loved, but they don’t know that bad things makes their partner stronger and a strong person can easily find the right path and move on with their life without the abused partner.

Trust is one thing that makes a relationship last, but a relationship will last if both trust each other. If somehow, infidelity, lies and broken promises come into your relationship, the trust will be damaged but you can always rebuilt it. In rebuilding trust, it’s hard and it takes time, but you must be patient enough to save your relationship.

A partner who is honest to himself is also honest to his partner. If both of you are honest, probably, there will be no doubts.

If you are really in love with the person no matter what he is, what kind of attitude he has, you will still love him. Nobody is perfect, love can wait, love can change you from bad to good. Love really grows, I believe on that. If your partner doesn’t change his insecurities at all after so many years, I don’t think it’s love.

Love is priceless. Love can make you strong. Love can make you weak. Always remember that Love is a gift. Don’t withhold it because it will come unexpectedly.

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  1. ssieon

    On October 26, 2007 at 5:32 am


  2. ssieon

    On October 26, 2007 at 5:33 am

    lour message

  3. ssieon

    On October 26, 2007 at 5:34 am

    not brief message

  4. Franklin Amadi

    On December 27, 2007 at 3:25 am

    i really think that there is more to love than feelings. The problem that seems to stare us in the face in our relationship’s sometimes, is as a result of our overexpectation that things will always be fine and that nothing will ever go wrong. and because we are unarmed to this truth we are always bound to think differently and most times the wrong way. What i mean is this, people In relationships, should always prepare for the worst so that when it comes, it does not leave you in shock because u were earlier prepared for it. But please don’t fail to poure out your feelings if you wish to do so.There is always enough to go around.

  5. Katrina Noelle

    On February 10, 2008 at 11:43 am

    Love never dies a natural death. It
    dies because we don’t know how to
    replenish its source. It dies of
    blindness and errors and betrayals. It
    dies of illness and wounds; it dies of
    weariness, of withering, of tarnishing.

  6. ana

    On March 10, 2008 at 4:32 pm

    love fails because one does not put enough effort in the relationship. when one in love they should push till they feel that the relationship is going well personal experience talks

  7. jinger

    On July 17, 2008 at 3:44 am

    …feelings can be very deceiving! We can always love and be loved and it’s just a matter of deciding to commit yourself to a certain person. Feelings can always change but if we were determined that we wanted to be with the person we love…love would never fails. Pains, sacrifices and disappointments will always be part of loving all we need to do is to brave enough to face it and understand that when loving a person…it is also a battle of pain and sacrifices.

  8. Ram Hari

    On July 17, 2008 at 9:43 am


    i’m agree with you. i have an experiance that the love didn’t grew at the pick place due to lack of communication.

  9. kishan

    On August 5, 2008 at 3:23 am

    ya love fails due to miss understanding,lack of confidence,lack of trust,lack of communication.Love fails or success both vl be in ur hand…..

  10. mhela

    On August 20, 2008 at 4:22 am

    i think love fails coz one is loving too much and the other is not… it wont work if thats the case.. remember this we can, still find love but never ourself..

  11. junix

    On September 24, 2008 at 2:11 pm

    i strongly beleive…Amen ;o)

  12. akiyushuki

    On December 29, 2008 at 5:03 am

    i agree!

  13. sameer

    On January 25, 2009 at 5:01 am

    iam sameer,(people dead one time in their life,but i dead in every second) how u feel when ur girlfriend is sleeping with anyone else,even she doesn’t like him but living with him because of her daughter’s future.We both have trust,good communication, understanding, everything but still we both in pain, love, sacrifice. yes love is not different from these words. (love make a dareness to kill ARNOLD Schwarzenegger but u cannot fight with luck )
    please reply solution

  14. ravi8686

    On February 10, 2009 at 7:07 am

    I know that feeling guys when i see her my heart is beating so fast evry thing looking like heavn time goes very fast in slow motion i open my heart in front of her. but she betrayed me. what ever if she dosen’t love me i will love her ever ever and forever bcoz when i love her i don’t have any condition that she love me also………….. By Ravi Who Fails In His First love

  15. skitto

    On March 24, 2009 at 2:35 pm

    True love never fails, it’s someone who fails to love. I agree so much that when one person is loving more than the other love will fail that person. soon you will see that your pain or tears may never matter to them then you know they are failing out of it. People may say to never love one more than yourself but if we follow that rule we will end up loving ourselves to the point where we think its ok to please oneself eg. cheating.
    i have cheated (a fling no emotions) and confessed after being in a none sexual relationship. And now i am fighting to hold on to the one i love for nearly a year. it makes me wonder if i should have taken it to the grave.
    TRUE LOVE may get over you but you may never get over true love. i know there are people who love and love forever even when the lover is gone. May our Creator help them.

  16. ravindra

    On April 6, 2009 at 9:29 am

    I am ravi True love never fails but in this modern world. people do not loved sincerly that is the problem. If lovers love truly it never fails. i have an experiance that the love didn’t grew at the pick place due to lack of communication.

  17. ricky

    On May 1, 2009 at 1:08 am

    Love, love. Or is it? I think love comes with loving yourself first and being confident with who you are. And finding someone you can relate to. And always learning new things from eachother, and being willing to accept this new information, and allowing it to grow and breathe in and around your world. If you can learn to adapt to it, and if she can do the same feeding off of your adaption into her world. The two of you can strive to great accomplishments and grow a loving family/relationship.

  18. lc

    On May 6, 2009 at 10:43 am

    love fails because they outgrew one another due to lack of time spending together, forgotten how to be sweet/forgiving/thoughtful, and communication has become less with more arguments/squabbles. then pride sets in and no one is giving up – like a winner and loser competition.

  19. love

    On July 9, 2009 at 3:26 am

    Love is a big lie

  20. wahid

    On December 26, 2009 at 3:28 pm


    Love fails due to some specefic reasons, when you first fall in love you feel very excited and happy and you feel that you have got everything in life, but usualy its not love, becuase it can be attraction… if you like her body and some other parts on that time you have no control on your self you just want to be with her, and yhou promise all the things which comes to your moth but its not love…. and later on when you see some other beautiful girls and if one of them give you a chance on that time you start ignoring your first girl friend, and you dont listen to her and you dont talk like before you used to….and in result your no longer together…. And answer of my dear friend, if your girl friend is sleeping with someone els, find your weak points your mistakes and try to improve them and take care of your relationship and be possissive about her…

  21. jess

    On September 24, 2010 at 8:52 pm

    love is good when it’s good and it sux so bad when it’s not. I’m mad at love.

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