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Why Do People Cheat in Relationships?

Why do people cheat? Is it natural and why do those whom have been cheated give repeated chances?

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  1. HelloSiti

    On June 28, 2009 at 3:43 am


    I made an article in Bukisa about how to avoid ourselves from cheating. My pen name there is CYBERNEVERTY.

  2. Ai0no801

    On June 28, 2009 at 12:03 pm


    nice man…

  3. Tanya Wallace

    On June 28, 2009 at 5:49 pm


    As always stumble upon writer,excellent work.An informative,interesting article that is thoroughly evaluated, asking all the right questions.I think some poeple are addicted to cheating while others feel insecure about themselves,finding themselves cheating to make theirself feel better,either way those that do it don’t respect or care how the partner feels.A very enjoyable read,on a great subject.Keep them coming.

  4. kate smedley

    On June 30, 2009 at 1:43 am


    Too many people have affairs sadly, either as a symptom of what’s wrong in their relationship or just through pure selfish need. I think your comment about some ‘cheaters’ only being concerned with their own needs is very true for some but not all … I could discuss this for ages! Thought provoking article, thanks for this. I for one would not continue a relationship if someone had cheated on me but I know people do for various reasons (children/finances), it is never straightforward. Sorry for ramble, thinking out loud! Great work.

  5. stumbleuponwriter

    On June 30, 2009 at 6:44 am


    Thanks friends for liking it..

    @Mystify Your comments are always fresh and I love your out-take on most things. I agree definitely that insecurity play a very important role on why cheating develops. I think this subject is quite sensitive as both sides have different stories. Thanks again for sharing your views, I appreciate it very much..

    @Kate I agree with you. The issue of cheating is like a double-edged sword and most things are behind closed doors so we won’t know that sometimes the cheaters have their own ‘valid reasons’. Like an over-possessive partner on the extreme of insanity and stuff like that, which leads to the suffering partner to cheat in order to get out of that cocooned stuffiness. Thanks for your opinions, it’s always welcome..

  6. LOVELYHONEY

    On August 7, 2009 at 9:01 am


    there are two types of compatibilities which have to be met one is
    sexual

    second is
    mental

    for a happier relationship and sex
    we have to ensure we match in both
    either one can be a cause of CHEATING IN A PROMISED MG/COMMITMENT
    THIS IS more due to integration of cultures and lack of emotions ans SELFISHNESS

    Also some r born cheaters its in their genes

  7. XXElleXX

    On September 15, 2009 at 12:36 am


    *w* – I have also written on the topic SUWriter – the article was received quite well by some (like yourself), but it wasn’t so well- received by others LOL – it’s a very contentious subject. IMHO, The majority of people cheat in their imaginations whilst some cheat in reality. Blame it on reality, blame it on the moonlight, but whatever the reason – the victim of a cheating partner should never blame themselves. Well-penned :-)

  8. diamondpoet

    On October 31, 2009 at 10:42 am


    So many people don’t respect and value their marriage and think that sex is a good reason to get married, but there is so much more to it. Marriage takes work and you must take the time to know all about each other before you enter into a marriage. Good work!

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