Why Girls Keep Dumping You

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You know everything about everything. You lie about every little thing to make yourself look good. You bad-talk her friends, casting doubt on her judgement and good sense. If you genuinely knew everything about everything – which I seriously doubt – you wouldn’t need to be reading this. So keep your mouth shut or be proved a fool with your careless, idiotic  rants.

Girls hate show-offs and are awed by men who secretly know stuff but have to be prodded to give their opinion. We think this is clever and extremely attractive. Don’t lie about every little thing. So you didn’t see the movie the first time it came out, so what. When she asks you about the plot she’s going to know you’re lying if you don’t mention the vampire that bit the baddie in the behind.  If you don’t like the friends she hangs out with, it’s not your job to make sure she ditches them. You’re not her dad, and even if you were, you’d be the last person she’d take ‘friendship’ advice from.  Know your place and you won’t keep getting dumped.

You’re Quick to Make Promises

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But you never keep them. For goodness sake, keep your tongue place firmly in your palate if you know you may not be able to do something. One of the reasons women cite to me for wanting to dump their guy is that he’s incapable of keeping his word. You know, she can’t say this of you if you’re very careful about giving your word in the first place.

Do what you say you would do. If you know there’s a chance you may not be able to keep your word, don’t give it in the first place. Women gush about dependable men and dump the rest.

You Never Go Out

What? You don’t want to be seen with her? You’ve got another girl you might bump into on the way? What? If you never want to go out (and here I mean out to the cinema, for dinner, to the park, for a walk – out in public) with her she will dump you. And when the next one comes along and you don’t want to go out in public with her either, she will dump you too.

Girls like guys who’re proud to be seen with them. If you don’t want people to know you’re dating a certain girl, maybe you shouldn’t be with her.

Your Stuff Matters

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You’ve got lots of stuff – maybe more than other people and boy, do you know it. No one likes a boast. If you’ve got stuff people already know about it. They can see how you dress, what you drive, and how you spend. No one wants to be reminded of it, so down-play boastful talk or you’ll get dumped. If you don’t get ditched, the girl you’re seeing is only with you because of what you have. Go on and bore your mirror about yourself and your stuff, just keep that conversation out of civilised discussions.

People are attracted to the connection they can make with someone else and not the bond they could have with their ‘stuff.’ Remember this. If you have to use your wealth and position to attract people to you what does this say about who you are?

So now you know some of the reasons girls dump you so often. Go out there and walk like a man who knows how to keep his girl. No backsliding now!

If you want to know what the girls are saying about you behind your back, find more relationship articles on my blog The Relationship Supermarket