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*My opinion counts too:

*Relationships are built on trust, etc.:

In my opinion, any relationship is built on trust, faith, honesty, and knowing the person you’re having a relationship can be trusted with your secrets and intimate moments together. No-one wants to hear their secrets out on the street. If we don’t trust the person who we are having a relationship with, how do we know when he/she is telling us the truth about where he/she is going or what they have been doing?

Isn’t it great to trust your mate to go out with other friends and know he/she will not cheat on you? We must trust the person we’ve chosen as a mate or the relationship is not worth having. When there is “no” trust, there is constant bickering and wondering what is going on behind our backs, but where there is trust, there is happiness and a relationship of understanding each other.

*Are you involved with someone you cannot trust?:

When a person finds out they cannot trust their mate, there will be a constant battle with their mind as to what their mate is doing and who they’re with. When a mate has trust in their relationship, and their partner knows it, a mate will not want to do anything to destroy the trust their mate has in them. A mate who is “not” trusted will always come under fire as to what they’ve been doing and their partner checking up on their stories.

If a person does not trust their mate, there will be a partner checking to see if their mate has told them the truth about where they were going, and if they were not where they said they would be, a big fight will follow when their mate comes home. Distrust and self doubts in any marriage is a terrible thing for either person to live with on a daily basis. It’s my suggestion before you have a solid relationship with a person, be sure you trust them. Why marry or have a relationship with a person if you do not trust them?

*Summation:

There’s no-one who wants to share in a relationship with someone they cannot trust. This can become a basic problem in the relationship because of “no trust.” If you take the leap and marry someone you do not trust, you are asking for “real” problems…back away and rethink your situation.