Why Its Hard to Go From a Relationship Into a Friendship
A short article about why it is difficult to go from being in a relationship with someone, to just being there friends. Also reasons why it is hard, and reasons why it sometimes works.
Being friends with an ex-partner isn’t easy, but it won’t go from a relationship to a friendship if things was left on a sour note. The friendship, if there ever is one, will only happen if the relationship has been left on a good note, between two people who can put there relationship troubles behind them to try and remain friends.
People coming out of a serious relationships, will not be able to remain just friends. It is impossible and just can’t be done properly. You don’t stop loving the person so you can’t remain just friends with them. Even trying to be friends, just makes you attracted to the person more, which leads onto giving the relationship another go. All I will say in this situation, is make it work, because that person could be the one that is meant for you, and it would be a terrible thing to let them slip out of your graspe.
If people can still be friends after relationships then I don’t think there wasn’t much feeling there in the first place. Sometimes friendship can get a bit to over-friendly which leads on to you believing you have feelings for this person. This feeling isn’t a sign of wanting to be in a relationship with the person, it is just a sign of having a strong, close friendship.
Relationships are all about being with the right people, just don’t get involved with anyone that is currently is a friend, otherwise your friendship might not be the same again.
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