Why It’s Hard to Settle Down in a Relationship

 I think many of us have problems finding the right partner in life and then settle down. This is why many women and men are still single in their late twenties. I’m in my late twenties and still have problems with relationship. I think it has a lot to do with career and personal life. I moved to a different state recently so that took all the relationships away from me. There are fewer men that are my type in my new state. There is a lesser pool for dating. I’m still adjusting to a new life and it’s difficult to do that while dating too. I don’t think that I can date just yet. I barely got things together and it won’t be another year until I can get a relationship together. I’m dating but it’s not like I have a committed relationship.

 I think that other people also remain single because of career and lifestyle. They are busy working and traveling for work or just too busy with family or personal life that it’s hard to stick with a person. Even if you have a boyfriend, they will eventually go their own ways because you can’t really be there for them. They either get bored of you or they’re frustrated in your relationship and they want to move on. You aren’t always happy in a relationship either. I was in a relationship before and they were mostly miserable. I wasn’t ecstatic with my previous relationship. I had so many problems with them. I’m much happier being on my own. I don’t have to deal with problems beside the problems that I have in my life already.

I think it’s the same way with most people. They spend years in college and then they adjust to their career. They spend years trying to put their life together and it’s difficult for them to hold a relationship together while doing all of those things too. This is why many people can’t hold a relationship or remain single for so long. Even if we’re in a relationship, it doesn’t mean that it will work out either. This is why people rather take a break from relationship than have relationship. I think that people will have more success after they’re done with college and after they’re done with their goals in life. I think that education and career come first and then relationship. There are people that are good with juggling those entire thing stub some people aren’t good at those things and they preferred to stay single. They struggle to hold a relationship while maintaining their education goals or career goals. I think this is why people can’t succeed in relationship. They are single and they can’t seem to have a relationship together until they have a lot of free time on their hands.