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Why Men Cheat

A male point of view on why men cheat…

This is a question that my sister used to ask me on a regular basis, and the answer is simple, because they don’t know any better! Men are born with testosterone which can act like a poison at times, men can wind up in bad situations doing who knows what, to god knows who with no feelings attached at all. some men are groomed early to be so called players and pimps. Are uncle’s, friends, cousins, and sometimes are own fathers, are always hounding us as teenagers with that question, Did you get some We are taught that it is cool to be a player, its OK to have women all over the place craving you, calling you every day, and wanting to sleep with you. The funny side to this is that women are more attracted to the ladies man or the player or the guy they heard was good in bed, maybe this is because bad guys are more fun. Now ladies don’t get discouraged there are good guys out there but if he is twenty five and under with experience don’t be surprised if he is always at the clubs or hiding his cell phone from you he has a lot of maturing to do and a lot of testosterone as fuel, He does not know why he does what he does he just does it. Now ladies think back to the last time you asked your man, why did you do it? I guarantee he gave you a silly answer or if he’s a veteran player told you it was not him and used his friend as an alibi in the story among many stories. We cheat because we want too, at that time and place some times the person we cheat with isn’t even good looking, we just do it and blame it on the alcohol. But let’s not forget two can play the cheating game and women are better than men. Hey ladies here is the secret. Treat him like you don’t need him, and he will keep chasing you, men are natural hunters and we love a good chase, we will try our hardest to impress you and get you to smile, laugh, and look up to us. Besides what women wants a man they could look down on. Men love the challenge of getting a women but to often we chase the wrong one and wind up getting her, only to wish we didn’t even bother. Also ladies if you are not a gold digger become one! look at it like this, the guy with the money is chasing the finer things in life not women, women chase him and he will be very selective in his choice, the guy who is broke is only broke because he’s is chasing women, he probably got a job but two different babies mamma’s, and paying child support. He is usually good looking and always in the club doing what he does best cheating on his so called wife. Now does this sound like any one you know? Men cheat because of many different things but the question women should be asking is why do I put up with it.

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  1. LoveDoctorLoveGoodBye

    On November 11, 2009 at 3:55 am


    Great article. this site is not working tonight. I have tried to post this comment already like three times and I get forbidden comment. lol
    Anyhow, good topic. Cheating is a big big problem these days. Both men and women are guilty. I blame it on the Facebook, myspace crap that has allowed people to reconnect with their past. Women play it off that they are talking to an ex who is just a friend. then, the excuse of getting together for coffee and before you know it, they will try to get in the picture again if they find out their ex has a girlfriend. These days you don’t even know who is lying or telling the truth. keep publishing articles like these. I like to hear a guy’s point of view.

  2. LOVELYHONEY

    On November 11, 2009 at 4:54 pm


    i personally feel from my interaction with a vast xsection of society is

    men and women cheat when they are firstly

    not sexually compatible

    secondly not mentally compatible

    since u have touched the subject and i have great sexual knowledge
    i shall once again write on why men plus wo -men cheat

    it is not the xclusive prerogative of either sex

    both can and do CHEAT

    Thats human nature

    some do it more whilst others play safe and some r simply scared …. or 100 percent would cheat

  3. Leonardo da Vinci E.

    On November 17, 2009 at 12:21 pm


    Superior article! You get an A for effort.

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