Why Men Get Offensive When a Woman Knows What She Wants?

Why alpha men do not like intelligent women?

                 I was reading stories on the website Baggage reclaim.com about how successful, intelligent women are having difficulties finding a spouse who are on their level. Women are complaining that if a man perceives that a woman makes more money than him, then he is less likely to pursue a relationship with her.  Men are very intimidated by a woman who is far more trenchant and smarter than he is.  Women are saying that men are more likely to be obnoxious and distance while having a conversation with a woman who is “too deep”. Women asserted that if a female demonstrates that she knows topics beyond latest magazine gossips, shoes, clothing and other superficial conversational topical, a man easily becomes bored.

                 I want to share some tidbits of encounters I have had with an alpha male or so-called alpha male and his dispositions. I would love for my readers to make an assessment of the situation. I will share my input and you may share yours if you choose to at the bottom of the page.

          My latest encounter was with a well known executive who I will call Tony.  Tony is the type of man who is intelligent in his natural sense. He is an avid reader, experience and has an ego the size of Jupiter.  Tony falls into a category of men who initially find a woman’s intelligence intriguing but as soon as he realized that it will stymie his ability to get her in bed, her intellect becomes insufferable to him. He will attempt to insult her by way of degrading her physique or downplaying the importance of her trenchancy by insinuating that she is overcompensating or below standard.   The woman will more likely than not be offended by his comments, shuts up for the rest of the date or simply give him lib and leave his arrogant ass.  

              He will resort to character assassination to wear down her chastity defenses. He will attempt to destroy her self concepts and ideologies by rendering them immaterial and vacuous. The idea is to reduce her self awareness so that he can have his way with his date.  He wants to tear down a woman’s defenses to the point where she will comply with his advances and he wins by getting her to change her morals.  It is simply an ego struggle between an alpha male and an alpha female that he perceives to be a threat to his masculine inflated ego.