Why Unfaithfulness Occurs in Some Relationships

People enter a relationship to get to know someone and seek happiness. I feel like unfaithfulness occurs in some relationships because either one of the partners aren’t treating the other one right or giving them the comfort that they are looking for or need. Some people would say tell them but it’s easier said then done. They are dissatisfied. And they feel like they have to go out and search for it. So they go out and search for what is missing in their current relationship. Some people say if you love someone you shouldn’t do this or that. But sometimes love has nothing to do with it. Hurting someone is not love. Breaking someone’s heart is not love either. It’s something that love takes you through but it’s not a standard. Because not every relationship that you indulge in your partner is always going to hurt you or break your heart.

Now I’m not saying that those people are wrong because if you love someone you shouldn’t be unfaithful to them. But when you have been hurt so many times it’s like you don’t know who to trust or believe. And don’t want to be hurt anymore. So they are unfaithful. But then some people are so use to being unfaithful in there relationships that it’s just a game to them now. So they hurt other people emotionally in other words they be unfaithful. When you and your partner argue in a relationship it may seem like it doesn’t mean anything or have an effect on your relationship but really it does. Arguments tend to pull you and your partner apart.

The more you argue it’s like the more y’all are slipping out of each other lives. Lack of understanding. A relationship is not only about love. Its about commitment and compromise and trust. If you don’t have those three things then you and your partner really shouldn’t be together. Jealousy is another reason why unfaithfulness occurs. If your partner suspects that your guy/female friends are just more than your friends. And they start to get jealous. And decide that maybe they should go in do the same thing you do.

But only the problem is that your not being unfaithful because nothing is going on. There just your friends. Unfaithfulness also occurs because of lack of emotional support. Maybe you and your partner just lost the spark. And the feelings are gone. And you can’t get it back no matter how hard you tried. So you go out and try to find that spark with someone else. Those are a lot of reasons why unfaithfulness occurs in some relationships.