Why Women Cheat and Get Away with It While Men Get Caught
by Men are poor at concealing their tracks when they cheat. They present a radical shift in behavior that gives their actions away. Women on the other hand cheat and get away with it for they know that the man in their lives will never notice anyway. Looking for those minor details helps women notice when something is wrong but taking those changes for granted leaves men clueless.
In relationships, it’s the little things that matter most. Women know this and it works to their advantage but a man on the other hand will look for major changes in her partner which never come and he has to depend on either catching her red handed or listening to her confession. When this happens, it is often too late and nothing can be salvaged.
Many a times when a man cheats, he will try to avoid his partner as much as possible due to a guilty conscience and neglect the little things he used to do either in the house or around the home.
He will not join his wife or family for lunch like he used to and he will start coming later at night than he used to with excuse after excuse. A man will forget those routine hugs and kisses, the occasional touch that made you comfortable and happy.
Women notice very easily that things are pretty wrong and start monitoring their man’s movements. They know when a man is distracted and will try to find the route cause of that distraction.
An affair distracts a man so much that he forgets all those little things he used to share with his wife and family. He soon forgets that anniversary, that birthday, that dinner date or even calling his woman thrice a day like he used to. That is a real man, always unable to conceal a distraction, an affair included.
Women on the other hand take advantage of men failing to notice these small changes. They will tend to be nicer than usual but emotionally unavailable. The usual headache will not set in at first, but then the old age lie of being tired will be used, and that blame game. They will try to push a man to the wall until he blames himself for the problems in the union and not themselves, the real culprits!
Do not be surprised when out of nowhere, someday, you are told that the two children you love so much are not actually yours biologically. It’s mainly because you failed to notice emotional estrangement when it happened and must now pay the price.
Man, be afraid when your wife of many years suddenly starts taking care of herself exceptionally well after years of self neglect, when she starts initiating sex when all along it was your sole prerogative, when she talks less than she used to when everyday she had appeared nagging, when she assumes a rather strange form of boldness especially in the bedroom, when she insists on driving herself to work or for shopping when in the past the onus was yours or the chauffeurs, when the number of out of town trips increase suddenly like she is visiting the brother or sister, when she blames you for not being loving enough, when she says you aren’t listening to her at all and yet she has said nothing, and when she calls you and tries to find out where you are.
If she used to ignore your little failings and now generates a mountain out of a mole hill, if she starts dressing in a sexy manner but sleeps in an old sack cloth, be very afraid. Nobody will tell you to your face that they are cheating. You have to be alert for those details and pray that it doesn’t go too far before you notice.
So many times men take these little changes for granted and assume that women are genetically wired to nag. So many times men try to solve the problem by giving women a taste of their own medicine and thereby complicating matters.
Women who cheat forget to use protection unless the man insists, but men who cheat will always carry a pack of condoms unless they have been with the other woman for a longer time than you notice.
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Post CommentShadowPsychos
On June 28, 2010 at 8:23 am
oh men def play the blame game too….good article
suhail
On June 28, 2010 at 8:49 am
you sure knows much about this one … i dont intend to cheat … cuz i feel ill meet an accidental death if i do so
Starpisces
On June 28, 2010 at 8:57 am
haha… you seem to understand we women a lot! Just kidding.. heehee, very interesting.
LoveDoctor
On June 28, 2010 at 9:00 am
Awesome points and I can agree with you more. But why dump the good guy for the jerk when the jerk pretty much can’t offer anything? And when the new mistress starts demanding jewelry, brand new cars and money, this is when men decide I am better off with my wife. Hahahahhahha.
yes me
On June 28, 2010 at 9:02 am
Well, my friend you have hit the spot once more, with your very informative article…. hmm it leaves me wondering now, just what research was done here… he he yes I josh great post my friend cheers.
Kopykween
On June 28, 2010 at 9:02 am
Really, this is interesting. Is it your opinion or did you research on this?
Starpisces
On June 28, 2010 at 9:24 am
haha, interesting… you seem to understand we women quite well, you see through our secrets…
and by the way, not everyone wants to cheat can cheat, because not all have the criteria to do so, heehee, just kidding again.
flowerrose
On June 28, 2010 at 9:26 am
Some point, I disagree with u, I don’t think the women cheat and get away. Maybe some people have a treat of them.
Thanks cheer
Atanacio
On June 28, 2010 at 9:44 am
Ill tell you the truth this was a very good article to read
Idlepen
On June 28, 2010 at 9:46 am
Nice post. To some extent I agree. But remember boring sex life some times push man and woman for a venture. Am I wrong?
drelayaraja
On June 28, 2010 at 9:50 am
Very interesting …
Lwandaz Tale
On June 28, 2010 at 9:52 am
loved this article.
sunnyiam
On June 28, 2010 at 11:08 am
hehe another verry interesting one…loved it!
Mr Arrogant
On June 28, 2010 at 11:34 am
Interesting. You come up with so much interesting topic that no one can’t avoid reading it. great
Jimmy Shilaho
On June 28, 2010 at 12:32 pm
Thanks for all your comments. I have been studying women for all my adult life. They are very interesting. At some point I actually argued that they are a different species altogether.
Anuradha Ramkumar
On June 28, 2010 at 1:27 pm
It is said that “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus,” but you have made every attempt to understand women and has succeeded in it.
Ruby Hawk
On June 28, 2010 at 2:26 pm
You jest, my friend. but I enjoyed your article.
Mrjaialai
On June 28, 2010 at 3:34 pm
Well written!
briantaylor1992
On June 28, 2010 at 4:46 pm
Very interesting article mate! I know the little clues now, lets all hope none of us actually have to use see these little changes happening. Very nicely written.
giftarist
On June 28, 2010 at 6:36 pm
I thought you would never write this topic. Fascinating points here, friend. Lots to remember.
LOVELYHONEY
On June 28, 2010 at 11:20 pm
ONCE I ASKED THIS QS
TO A DOC
WHY WOMEN BEHAVE THE WAY THEY DO
HIS ANSWER WAS PLAIN
DO U HAVE A SPECIALIST DOC FOR MEN ONLY
NO
THAT’S THE ANSWER
WOMEN HAVE…………….
klayman
On June 29, 2010 at 11:44 am
I can sum this article up in 3 words: women are smarter
Jewelstar
On June 29, 2010 at 4:01 pm
Nowadays, relationships are not taken very seriously. If it works out, well and good or else “I tell you, goodbye”. This is the attitude of men and women of the 21st century.
LiteraryPrincess
On June 29, 2010 at 4:12 pm
Have you been studying women, or just doing a lot of research? “Normal” men don’t think this way, or know this stuff. LOL
LiteraryPrincess
On June 29, 2010 at 4:18 pm
Ha ha…after I hit “submit comment”, I scrolled through your comments, and I got my answer. You’ve been studying women. Funny, “normal” men don’t even study women, at least, not in that way. I’m impressed, I like a man that knows and takes the time to get to know women. There are few out there. Usually the men who study women are awesome men, and believe it or not, if a woman knows a man is that kind of man-she’ll think twice before she tries to cheat (because she knows that she’ll really have to be up on her game). Plus, men who study women, are usually great at satisfying his woman (and no, I don’t mean sexually, at least not only). That’s just my opinion.
Dex477
On June 29, 2010 at 4:53 pm
Interesting
What made you decide to write this particular topic?
meandu
On June 29, 2010 at 5:02 pm
Not sure I agree with you here.
elnavann
On June 29, 2010 at 7:06 pm
There is also another reason: Men have such a reputation for cheating that we actually expect them to do that and are always on the outlook for signs.
ashan1614
On June 29, 2010 at 9:07 pm
A lot of good points made here. Because of the way women are wired we are more likely to notice subtle changes in behavior than men who usually try to attribute any changes in women to PMS. Also because some women are accustomed to manipulative behavior, they can get away with cheating much easier.
Eunice Tan
On June 29, 2010 at 10:55 pm
Wow.. thanks for the nice share
tasha kazuki
On June 30, 2010 at 12:34 am
I think cheaters get away with it (both male and female) because their partners turn a blind eye when a certain suspicion arises. Accepting things as they are instead of confronting the issue. Nice write!
Fruit Sensation
On June 30, 2010 at 5:23 am
Women are harder to work out than men. The brains are different for both sexes.
Purnomosidhi
On June 30, 2010 at 6:36 am
Great article.. It seems you understand women.
zain0077
On July 1, 2010 at 1:39 am
Interesting.
S L Ruddy
On July 1, 2010 at 3:32 am
great article. Very interesting, i do think women get caugth too though, if your at it long enough your bound to start slipping up. And i also think that just because you’ve thought of it doesn’t mean your going to do it, not everyone can do that to the man they love!!!!
Michal Dorcak
On July 1, 2010 at 3:40 pm
Great articles. I liked it a lot. Now I know what to look for when I get married or at least find myself a girlfriend
Btw, I do not agree with person who wrote that women are smarter. I think they are equally as smart as we men. The only difference is that we devode too much of our thinking to the feeling of guilt. And he who thinks a lot about his guilt becomes distracted and starts to make more mistakes.
BillFrancise
On July 2, 2010 at 5:51 am
Interesting article although even though men get caught women get caught all the time
and I looked at some of the articles did you research or is this opinion or first hand :O
mo hoyal
On July 2, 2010 at 11:22 am
Well written but I have to add my 2 cents please. I’ve seen men restaurant owners bring their wives flowers, gush all over them in public and turn around and boink one of their waitresses without any conscience on either part of-the boinker or the boinkee-so not all men do not know how to get away with cheating. Some do it very gallantly! I’ve seen women do the same.
Best regards,
Mo
EricPinola
On July 2, 2010 at 3:19 pm
Great job on this one. You are 100% correct; for the most part men do not notice the subtle changes and cannot help but stumble will being deceptive.
I love my wife and children, and would never hurt or damage any of their lives by doing such a thing.
BUT maybe it’s the Gemini in me, or surviving through a very troubled & insane childhood, or it’s just me. I am a social engineer and the art of deception is something that I have passed many in the higher levels of proficiency. Though I am clever and keen to knowing what to do to pull one past anyone; I am not very good at detecting the same actions in the people I love that surround me.
I think that is because I have taken down the false appearances and defensive wall with those that I love alone. ? . not sure
I do know that social engineering is a skill; and with all skill repetition is the mother.
I do need help with a different skill; brevity is the father of wit.
great post…as always clicky – clicky
Eric P
CA Johnson
On July 2, 2010 at 4:35 pm
This is very good. You can’t give away our secrets to cheating on men. You should know better than that. LOL! Thanks for letting us know how men and women get away with cheating.
Woman II Woman
On July 3, 2010 at 12:45 am
Good job!
RustyNail
On July 3, 2010 at 6:39 am
Women are smart. Besides some guys, at a subconscious level, don’t care to get caught because it makes them feel like real machos building up their own hareems. Great article +1.
banana4LYFE
On July 3, 2010 at 2:58 pm
interesting..I’m guessing you have some experience with this. You might want to fix that.
Uma Shankari
On July 3, 2010 at 3:31 pm
An interesting info.
seslisohbet
On July 3, 2010 at 3:43 pm
How can I add a new skin/edit an existing one?I like this advice.
Jerry Bradford aka Jerry Atrixx
On July 3, 2010 at 7:53 pm
I agree in part with this article, however my response would be too lengthy here so I will elaborate in article form giving this article credit for inspiring me to retort.
Well written even though I don’t completely agree. There is a lot of very true statements made here. The one that really sticks out for me is that women are programmed to ascertain subtlety while men look for grandiose shifts.
Where I disagree is in this being the major reason for why men fall short of discretion.