Woman’s Basic Needs

the basic woman want are varied
CARE FOR HER :- i was  lecturing a group of woman recently and i asked  them which gift they will prefer from their husbands  between a car and care. in the other  word, which one one will they go for their husband  or ready to buy a cars without caring  for then or to buy to care for them without buying a cars for them i was. I was surprised that all of them shouted  they prefer a CARE to  CAR. Your wife needs your cares: legs and hands  e.t.c Don’t just  love her demonstrate it by caring for  her

GIVE HER ATTENTION:– one wise man said home does not sweet when you are not always in it.    Be at home. let your wife  enjoy you. Night clubbing is not for god -fearing man. Go back home. When  your wife is talking to you stop reading the newspapers,  swatch off the T.V set and. move closer to her.
When she  talks, hold,console, comfort and encourage her Your wife really wants you to be at home Decide to spend  your best time with her.

Be faithful to hear:– You can’t expect your wife to be submissive to you on bed when she knows you sleep around. Of course she  will feel bitter and choose to avoid HIV/AID infection. therefore, be faithful with your wife,be content with what she can offer. Woman are not efferent. What you are look for  elsewhere is  loaded in your darling wife, explore it.

Be truthful:- your wife cannot respect  you if she discover you are a liar and not a man of  you word. be truthful and speak the truth in love.

Be bold:- Woman often respect bold and fearless men. if a woman discovers you are Lilly levered”, she may not be obliged to bow down to you. Develop yourself, talk like a man, tears are unbecoming of a man in the presence of his wife and children.

PROTECT HER:– do not open her to attack from your family and friend, defend her.stand by he, it is God given duty

CHERISH HER:– Appreciation from you is one of the things your wife  desires most. she want you to hell her she is beautiful. Appreciate her dressing, cooking, sexual relationship, house keeping children nursing etc. please cherish you wife no body can do it but only you.

LISTEN TO HER:– Give her ears. listen to her let her mind to you, let her express her fear, joy, sadness, expectation, desire, regret, etc. be her confidant. if you are, she will avoid offending you and rally submissive to you.

SUPPORT HER:– Give her helping hand. Do not commit house keeping, cooking, baby sitting to her only. Stand by her support he. Help her baby-sit and she will respect and submit to you.

ATTEND MARRIAGE SEMINARS TOGETHER:–most couple always shy away from marriage seminars, ribbing them the knowledge of  what they suppose to do their her to marriage clinic  and listen to sound doctrines on marriage, this positive rub off on her.

PAMPER HER:–spoil her a little, given her more than she bargains for. let her enjoy much of  your generosity.Don’t just  be good  outside be wonderful at home. Help her as she cooks and buy  gift for her. Ordinary sweets, meat-pies, fish roll or even ice cream may make her day. Don’t just be manly, be humanly

LET HER ENJOY SEX:–most men think sexual enjoyment is only for men folk and don’t bother whether their wives enjoy it or not. all shall enjoy sex. if you want your wife to submit to you on bed, then don’t make bedtime nightmarish for again. let her enjoy sex. Don’t rush into i, let there be foreplay, allow her to be well lubricated. do not “rape” her but make love. Appreciate her after the act  and cuddle her after ejaculate. Don”t just sleep off train your self to delay ejaculation for as long  as possible. the longer the delay the train the better for her. Make her call for more and you will be glad you did.

NEVER BEHAVE LIKE A BABY:–Behave maturely. be a man, be strong bold kind and prepare to forgive your wife. be tender enough to ask her forgiveness when you offend her. Only baby husband report his wife to the family  when she offend him.    An idea husband  will pray about it and call His wife for discussion, which will be frank talk but done it in love. a baby husband can keep malice with his wife, heat her or even reject her food  and refuse to give her money or pack out of the house. Be mature, don’t behave childishly Don’t just be a male, be a man. Make your wife submit to you

TELL HER YOU LOVE HER:– when last have you told your wife  “I love you”? do it now. Woman always love to hear this. Don’t just conceal love for her in your heart, Verbalize it and watch her submit

MAKE HER HAPPY ALWAYS:–Let her always be happy she married you. When a woman is happy with you,she will submit to you.Make your wife miss you when you are away and extremely happy to welcome you back. that is the best way yo make her fall on her knees for you.