Women and Cheating Men: Why is It Still Happening? Who is to Blame?

Cheating men are a common thing that women experience in life but it is never was a favorite subject, when or with who the men cheat and how many partners they have had, they always hope their wife or girlfriend forgives their action. Women always question themselves why does their partner want to have them in the beginning only to fall victim of cheating partner.  I was viewing post in one of my registered website  and my eyes was caught by this headline  :I love u baby…& I’m sorry for what I did…please forgive me.. so I went in to read it. I was surprised to know that this man had actually did a very big mistake behind his girlfriend’s back which is the worst kind of mistake that a woman has difficulty to forgive and claimed that it was unintentional. He wanted to confess his mistake to his girl but he worried that she might not forgive him for what he have done. Now he is seeking advice from others publicly on how to tell her girl about his mistake and still not break up with him because he feels that saying “I love you and I’m sorry for what I have done” is not good enough which is true. So how can men ask this questions and yet they are still doing it? But when a women do this thing it is unacceptable and don’t deserve forgiveness?

After reading this post I felt upset and I just couldn’t help but give that man a piece of my mind. How can anything happen unintentionally? Is it because of their hormone made them do it or because they weren’t using the right head to think? Or is it because they see their spouse or girlfriend as an asset that cannot be touch so they need to find someone to entertain their wildest fantasies? Talking about this issue, I was suddenly reminded with a Hindi movie entitle Astitva. It is a story about a traditional Indian wife who had a one night stand and got pregnant with the man’s child. Her husband was not around and was away most of the time. But like any wife she has sexual need that need to be fulfilled. She tried to control herself but it happened. After the one night stand, she felt so guilty of her action and worst she was with child. She tried to tell her husband and willing to take responsible of her action, but the husband thought the child was his. The secret was finally out when she had inherited the father of her child’s wealth.