Women and Their Lovers
by Women find it hard to find a good lover, a man who will give her as much as she gives to him. It’s not impossible to find a good lover, but women have to start standing up to men and telling them what they want their lovers to do to them so that the both enjoy their love making.
“Women And Their Lovers”
We will look at a few scenarios, and in doing so; we will explore what a good lover means. Lets look at a few women, and what making love could mean to them.
First woman:
She fell in love with her man. Actually, it was love at first sight. He wanted to make love to her on the first night, but she didn’t want to seem easy, so she made him wait a few days, then finally gave into his desires for her, believing that she was doing the right thing, and in a way she was because by giving into him, and his desires she found out that he wasn’t the lover that he thought he was. Actually, she wondered what she found so attractive about this guy who didn’t take his time with her. He didn’t take the time to get her excited enough to have an orgasm. He took care of his needs, and left her wondering what had just happened. In a way she was glad that she gave into him, now she could dump this guy who only though about himself, and move on in life, hoping the next man she’d have sex with, would be far more considerate of her needs.
Second Woman:
She thinks to herself as she and her new boyfriend walk into a sex shop, hmmm this could be interesting, if he wants to go to a sex shop, why shouldn’t I go too? I’m as open minded as any other woman, maybe even more so. This should be fun. They walk into the sex shop, and explore all this sex shop has to offer, and he asks her if he buys her that sexy lingerie in the window, would she wear it? She thinks to herself why not, this could be fun, and so he buys the skimpy lingerie, and go to her place to have some fun..
They’ve only known each other a few weeks, but she finds it strange that he wants to shower alone, and not with her. She hopes he’s not one on these guys who wants to make love in the dark, but she goes along with him, thinking that it might excite her more if they shower alone. He comes out of the shower smelling very fresh, and exciting and they kiss and hold each other tightly. She can feel him getting erect, and pushes him away with a smile on her lips, teasingly biting him on the ear, as she leaves for her shower.
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Post CommentCaSundara
On November 19, 2009 at 8:37 am
It might be whole lot easier to just go with a girl instead LOL But, seriously, there was some brilliant advice given here. I think times have changed and women are aware they have the right to a fulfilling sex-life, but that issue of telling a man he’s doing it wrong isn’t an easy one! I’ve got four boys and have had some less than pleasant sexual experiences so I’ve decided to get them some books (or maybe I should have them read this, when they’re a little older… hehehe) so I know they aren’t going to treat a woman badly and that they’ll be aware of her needs. I think the biggest problem with boys is that their first exposure to sex comes in the form of porn (sneaking out of school at lunch-time to watch something someone found in their parent’s cupboard or whatever), and that’s what they think women want. It’s sad the way we fail to teach our children how to have proper relationships. I remember watching a programme about Indian girls being taught to kiss and make love by older Indian women, and practicing on each other before getting married. I don’t remember the men doing the same… Great article!