Women and Their Lovers
by Women find it hard to find a good lover, a man who will give her as much as she gives to him. It’s not impossible to find a good lover, but women have to start standing up to men and telling them what they want their lovers to do to them so that the both enjoy their love making.
It’s sad that more men don’t take a woman’s needs into consideration. There is hope though for the women who want to apply themselves in finding a good lover. This is where women have to speak up. Tell your man what he can do to turn you on and keep you turned on. Don’t sit back and let any man use you for his needs. Not only is it unfair, it’s sad that many women roll over after their men have had their way with them, and go to sleep wondering when if ever they will have an orgasm.
No woman should have to go to sleep hoping that the next time her man makes love to her that she has an orgasm. Stand up for yourselves. Tell your men what you want from them. Don’t give in to them until they make you happy sexually. Then, and only then should you allow a man to satisfy himself. It’s your body, it doesn’t belong to any man, do what’s right for yourself, and stop going to sleep after making love, and wondering if the next time will be better. Make your man an ultimate lover.
Just to prove this point. Some men can use an inflatable doll to relieve themselves. What does that tell you about a man? Most men don’t feel the same way about making love as a woman does, and it’s your job to put an end to that. If women were to take a stand, and tell their men what they expect from them sexually, their sex lives might be a whole lot better than if they say nothing. Remember ladies, a man can’t read your mind, tell him, show him, and if he doesn’t like it, move on, or suffer each and every time he makes love to you because you will never enjoy you’re sexual encounters.
For some women it’s not easy speaking up to their men, but if you don’t speak up, you will always go to sleep wondering about the next time you make love. Hoping that you will finally have the orgasms that you deserve to have. Making your man into an ultimate lover may never happen, but if you accomplish half of what you want sexually, that’s better than no accomplishments at all, and its way better than going to sleep saddened by the fact that yet again, you didn’t have an orgasm.
Ó Paul Faulkenham November 17,2009
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Post CommentCaSundara
On November 19, 2009 at 8:37 am
It might be whole lot easier to just go with a girl instead LOL But, seriously, there was some brilliant advice given here. I think times have changed and women are aware they have the right to a fulfilling sex-life, but that issue of telling a man he’s doing it wrong isn’t an easy one! I’ve got four boys and have had some less than pleasant sexual experiences so I’ve decided to get them some books (or maybe I should have them read this, when they’re a little older… hehehe) so I know they aren’t going to treat a woman badly and that they’ll be aware of her needs. I think the biggest problem with boys is that their first exposure to sex comes in the form of porn (sneaking out of school at lunch-time to watch something someone found in their parent’s cupboard or whatever), and that’s what they think women want. It’s sad the way we fail to teach our children how to have proper relationships. I remember watching a programme about Indian girls being taught to kiss and make love by older Indian women, and practicing on each other before getting married. I don’t remember the men doing the same… Great article!