Comments on: Women Don’t Know What A Good Man Is and When They Do Meet One, They Don’t Know How To Handle Him

By: Htown713

Htown713 — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 14:37:27 +0000

There’s a verse in the bible that talks about putting evil for good & calling evil,good & good,evil.A woman is bored by a man that wants to do the right thing.& you wonder why there are so many single mothers out there.You wonder why there are women in their 40s with no man.& you wonder why there are kids growing up with no father in the house.& you wonder why these things happen everyday?Because she wanted a challange,Thugs & bad boys are the evil counterparts which women think is good,but there are serious consquences in the end.You’ll find the scripture in Isaiah 5:20,21.

By: Hannah

Hannah — Tue, 14 Apr 2009 20:28:12 +0000

Well guys,
There is prolly more to the story, I am a woman that is responsible too, Dont do anything wrong, go to work, come home, clean my house, do homework with the little one, go to bed to wake up to do it all over again. My hubby aint perfect and has put me through alot of crap and I've also put him through crap too through the 14 years, I've also told him I was following his lead, lol. I can tell you what I think the problems are in why women do this, they may have been with them a long time, After so long, women are used to living with the turmoil in their life and dont know how to function without it, men are the same way. We are creature of habits. We become each others addiction. It seems that they are misreable with them, but guess what? Even more misreable without them. They start thinking of the good times they had together, especially the ones in the beginning!! Then they start thinking about them being happy with someone else and you know they cant have that! Women like to be kept on their toes and thats exactly what the bad boys are doing! Women if you have a bad boy, if you cant beat em, join em.....NOT WITH DRUGS or anything just go have fun, its your life too! and if they dont want to act right, give them a dose of their own medicine, and yes I know 2 wrongs dont make a right but men are animals, all of them, even if they say they are happily married, trust me, I know! I would never cheat on my hubby or my family but sometimes you just gotta put them bad boys in check in different ways, keep them on their toes too! As far as the good guys, you may not understand why woman do this but when a woman gives their whole heart to another man, their is usually no turning back. Sorry, that just will never change! Good luck!

By: naija

naija — Sat, 14 Mar 2009 00:19:03 +0000

women live in a fake world. they live in fantasy. Only a very few of them really know waht they want. In general they are myopic,ignorant, low self esteem and confused. i anm writing from nigeria. is the same here.

By: Olga Lednichenko

Olga Lednichenko — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 14:05:40 +0000

There are 3 aspects to a relationships: Mental.Physical and Emotional. And since its not an exact science -> rather an art in regression and co-relation, we try. It takes time to get the feedback and then adjust to new ways- refine the thoughts and thinking process.. perhaps that explains the journey – that of Trial and Error..
Regards
Olga Lednichenko

By: arg

arg — Wed, 30 Jul 2008 01:07:08 +0000

your spelling and grammar are horrible. that could be part of it.

also, maybe you should have given up on someone dumb enough to have a child with a meth addict. just saying.

By: mary

mary — Wed, 04 Jun 2008 15:37:11 +0000

Too bad! ad rather be in no relationship at all than crumble and stuggle with a bad one.Ladies dont be too desperate for love.Our father God in heaven loves us most.No one can match his love for us.Let us not loose the grips of our lives trying to make things right for a man who doesn,t care or has simply decided to be more than silly.Such men are unfit for mercy if they happen to come too close into your life ditch the like worn out glasses droped on the floor and crushed or the way you would throw a stone into the sea and move on with your life like they never existed.

By: Lex

Lex — Wed, 07 May 2008 00:08:45 +0000

I agree with you 100% man ! All I hear from my female friends is that they can’t find a “good man”. Truth is if you had one you would kick him to the curb.Females want challenges . I actually went through a period about a year ago where I would tell the girl on our first encounter that I was going to see other people and NEVER be exclusive to just her, you know waht happens …………. you guessed it about 5 girls won’t leave me alone and always want me to be with them ! I then meet one that I like and want to just date her, she goes back to her stealin good for nothin ex !!!!!! I completely give up on women, I truly could care less to date anybody, complete psychos out there !

By: MUZIKJOCK

MUZIKJOCK — Fri, 11 Jan 2008 13:13:52 +0000

IM NOT INTERESTED IN “THE LADY OF MY DREAMS”. SHE DOESNT EXIST EXCEPT IN MY DREAMS. AND THATS OK WITH ME. YOU GO AHEAD AND LIVE IN YOUR PIPE DREAM LIANE, BUT WHEN I WAKE UP IN THE MORNING, FANTASY GOES AWAY AND THE REAL WORLD STARES AT ME IN THE FACE. I’D RATHER BE BY MYSELF. DONT NEED THE DISSAPPOINTMENT.

By: Liane Schmidt

Liane Schmidt — Wed, 09 Jan 2008 06:21:11 +0000

The "dating world" can be a challenge no matter what gender you are. I think this has to do with the fact that people need to realize that true love and true friendship go hand in hand. People need to stop and look at how their friendships with their best friends, for example, developed. They did not develop overnight for the most part, but over time and great memories created spending time together and only wanting the very best for the other person. When applied in a romantic fashion, true love is possible. No one person, ethnic group, career field, etc. can be labeled as being one way or another. We are all individual - blank canvasses until we paint a picture of ourselves to others.

You will find the lady of your dreams. Never let anyone or anything jade your heart. Use every experience to learn more about yourself and what you want out of life and a significant other. Skies the limit! You can meet a wonderful person every place you go! Take care.

Best wishes.

Sincerely,

-Liane Schmidt.

By: muzikjock

muzikjock — Tue, 08 Jan 2008 23:27:08 +0000

i cant help but feel all this guy says. been there, done that. i went one step further. i married the woman. raised her kids and the one we had together. i took 12 years of her abuse. and she still doesnt know what a good man is . or didnt until i said good bye and moved out. now all i get is the “im sorrys” . now im a baby daddy. i still love hers and mine. and wont stop being a father to them. its not their fault. i have also stopped dating. i dont need the crap anymore. and i have assumed a virtual social life. i dont trust anymore. this man writing this blog is more than a man, he’s not a wuss. it takes a man to stand in the face of adversity such as he described here. anyone telling me that he is a wuss never tried what he tried. or what i had the courage to do. i wasted 12 years with a woman who never gave it a thought what a man she had living and covering her . never did she have a worry. but like he said. since there were no worries, she had to make something to worry about. and i ended up being nothing more than a sucker to put out fires that she created. i have since moved on . and dont care to go down that road again. i miss the intamacy and the companionship. but not as much as i hate being abused. i can do bad by my self. my hat comes off to this man. and im not ashamed to state my race. i am a white man . and my ex wife is an african american woman. and as he states, it matters not what race you are. its what is in your heart that determines your character. i wish this man , who ever he is all the best. dont lose hope as i have. i just dont play the games anymore. i live alone, with my boys. and i take care of mine. she can find another fool to play games. my man, you are ok with me.