You Cheated. What are You Doing?

Do you have enough courage to ask yourself before you marry him if I ever deceive me, what do I do?

Hardly something to think about it, at first, you’re on the moon. 

I do not know and overlook them. Forgiveness.
If you pretend you do not know, you have not learned anything, it might not happen. What would work better if that attitude, like ostrich policy. But not so. And I know that all women who have gone through such a sad and painful experiences. Why not work? Just because you’re hurt. And if you hurt the first time, will hurt the second and third and so on. And do not Amagi the pain after a while, will shrink to no longer exist. What there will actually be your self esteem, the power to do anything. What’s worse is that if you never get respect, no one will do.Neither he nor the children (if you have), no family, friends, knowledge … Nobody!

I do scandal
And get as hysterical, imaginary, possibly insane. Most likely will deny and will throw everything on you. You choke you with your absurd jealousies with your ridiculous lies and imaginings. You feel your blood pressure increases? On this count he! As you will really go crazy and eventually, he got away. With such crazy woman at the door, who would blame him for it?

Trying to be reasonable and to discuss with him
I mean you say that you got, you know who, when and where. First you try to defend himself and deny it, then you will be showered with all the shit you did it. ”How? Follow me? I spy? I check messages, emails …? How dare you break my privacy? What? Are you the police? “And throwing all this in your head, looking like the fact you cheated, and he at fault. That’s the idea.I mean cat policy: let me hide shit, if not seen, means no smells, that I did not. At a time when you will return and you will be calm, you realize you can not do much and it works that way.Tie you’ll just have to decide if you still accept it or not.

I propose to go to a marriage counselor
I mean you both accept that a problem and would like to address. Well, there may be a problem. As you only want to solve this thing. He’s was fine until now, when you “knew nothing” and the scandal is not so (for nothing). He certainly did not have any problem. If you want to go … He promises that will not cheat you anymore and that everything is resolved. In his mind, of course. The pain in your soul, bitterness and loss of confidence does not matter.These related to you. He is not afflicted with anything anyway. His only drawback is that you have found you and you make a rainy day.

You and you just
I mean we are wrong and you, who and when you want. If he is allowed, why are not you be allowed? If he can go to another, or others, why are not you mess around? Each have his freedom, right? In this case two questions arise:
1. Just want you to do what he does?
2. Why, have you married?

Simply leave it without any cunvant, without any explanation
Is this an option … shoc. But it will not necessarily wake up to reality. A poor man will use this as an excuse and will “throw” in the arms of another. If he was fortunate to receive it and so, leaving fresh. Because there are some women who like to take what belongs to another, but when it’s over the counter, refused and rejected, not to be so tempted.

However, if you set this precedent, there’s absolutely no guarantee that the gesture will not be repeated. And now you live in fear in the soul with suspicion and memories of the first step wrong, outside the relationship. And in this case a choice: either you take the situation as she is, the risk of repeating … indiscretion point be put once and for all. It’s up to you!