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You Got Dumped- Again?

by SunnyDK in Relationships, November 26, 2009

Are you wondering why you got dumped again? May be you are thinking it has something to do with your luck. Well, it’s easy to blame others and say women don’t understand you and they are crazy, don’t know what they want! But isn’t it infinitely more likely that the cause of your frequent relationship failures is, in fact, you? Think again.

No one is telling you that you are bad guy. But may be you are doing some mistakes again and again, resulting the failure of your relationship. If you want to know what went wrong and how to make it better, read this article.

 

  • Do not cross the line of being over-possessive. If you are too excited about your relationship that’s fine; but do not always hang around with your girlfriend and make life difficult for her. You should remember that everyone needs and likes some space. Give her that space and time that she needs for herself. Avoid imposing yourself all the time. Remember, little absence and distance makes love more interesting.
  • Stop spying or question your girlfriend, every time she talks to other men. If you continue to do this then the issue of trust would be raised and the relationship can face a big problem. Take it easy. Jealously can break a relationship easily.
  • Stop blame game and have some respect over your partner. A lot of men do blame their girlfriends for every wrong thing. They simply deny to take any responsibility when something bad happens. So stop blaming your wife or girlfriend before she leaves you. Be reasonable and take some responsibility.
  • It’s good be nice and there’s nothing wrong in it. But being too nice can be a bad thing for your relationship. If you always look to happy your partner no matter what and by doing so you be a ‘yes’ man of her then there is a real chance you get dumped once again. The point here is, be strong and make your own personality. Girls like men with confidence and ability to take decisions. Being too good can hamper your chances.
  •  You need to be emotionally stable and patience. Do not jump into a relationship without thinking about it. Many people just enter in a relationship because they think someone has to be there with them. But being alone for sometime is not a bad thing. Wait for your girl. If you meet someone observe her and then take any step. Any hurried relationship normally ends up in bad taste. So be careful otherwise you have to read this article once again from the beginning!
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  1. diamondpoet

    On November 26, 2009 at 11:51 am


    Relationship take work, some people are really not ready to commit. Good work.

  2. Ruby Hawk

    On November 26, 2009 at 10:28 pm


    A good relationship is worth working for, but don’t ever take any abuse from anyone.

  3. Blueage168

    On December 2, 2009 at 6:08 pm


    criticism is always hard to take, even constructive ones, yet after you think about it, they are for the better. nice article.

  4. Jessica Lynn

    On December 7, 2009 at 8:57 am


    A lot of truth! Take notes guys.

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