You Want to Find Love? Finding a Soulmate

What do you think a soulmate is?And how in the world can you find yours? I did.

First, I just want to say that soulmates are frequent and everywhere. They can be females or males. And if you believe in reincarnation there is a completely deeper bucket of worms to dive into, but not right now.

On the surface. Do you think that we, as humankind, are the end all be all of life? If that were true, this whole thing would be pretty lame, don’t you think? But the universe is vast, very cool, and limitless, if you can connect with a belief… Any belief really. Just something grander than yourself. If you want something to come to you, you envision it. This is including love and soulmates. Sounds too good to be true huh?

Mahatma Gandhi said it best, “Every moment of your life is infinitely creative and the universe is endlessly bountiful. Just put forth a clear enough request, and everything your heart desires must come to you.”

Granted, this only works if your intentions are pure and good. If you are not ready to meet a soulmate, a love of your life, then it won’t happen yet.

You need to be prepared and ready to have that person in your life. If you are searching, then in the process of them coming to you, you may have completely missed them in your intense focus and loss of self.

What needs to happen in your life for a soulmate to enter, is for you to be centered, balanced and taking care of you. Your energies need to be devoted to yourself, your well being, self love without an ego, desire without selfishness, and really be ready for love. You say to yourself, ” But I am ready for love and it still isn’t coming”. Really take a look at who you are, are you ready for love, are you really ready for a relationship? Or do you need to be in a relationship with yourself first to include another? Are you in love with you?

Do you really think that if cannot bring yourself to love you that there is enough to send out to your soulmate? Nope, no way. Now put your energy back into making yourself the best person you can be. Get off the dating website, stop going on random set up dates.

Make a date for you, fall in love with you, figure out what is important in your life. Then the soulmate will come. You may find a spouse, or maybe even a friend that you never thought you could live without. Love will come to you.

Being aware of your self and being aware of your life is the first step to finding love. If the universe knows you are ready, and your intentions are in the right place, what Gandhi said was right. These things will come to you because you are ready to deserve them.

I’ve had it happen, not only with soulmates, but with things I felt that I needed in my life. When I was ready they came to me. It really is an incredible thing to encounter. My dad always says (and I’m sure he got it from someone else) , ” that the universe works in mysterious ways”. It sure does Pop. Just have enough faith in yourself and something greater than the “I” in life and you will be able to reach places you never thought might be possible.

Make sure your inner light is strong enough to share with another soul, and you will eventually draw another light to your own.

Love is great like that. It will find you, when you are ready.

Please let me know if any of this has helped you in your life. I would love to hear stories about the universe giving you what you needed. It’s beyond awe inspiring.