How to Flirt with a Girl

Many men find talking to women difficult let alone knowing what to say to let their prospective partner know they’re attracted to them. We’ve all been there in that club or bar, seen that pretty girl across the way and had no idea what to do next. It’s often difficult to know how to flirt with a girl, there are however a few tips that may help.

Talking to her:
To flirt with a girl start by striking up a conversation with her as this will let her know you’re interested. Try to be confident and flowing as women like men who are secure in themselves, if you’re not naturally confident don’t worry it will come over time. Remember to listen more than you talk and ask follow up questions as women love a guy that listens. Try complimenting her on something she’s wearing, but don’t overwhelm her with compliments as you will seem fake. Joke and lean in slowly and don’t be afraid to tease her, women love being teased. Ask her about her interests and what she does and doesn’t like. Try being funny by finding something you both think is hilarious and turning it into an inside joke. Whatever else you do when you flirt with a girl be yourself. Women can tell when a guy is being fake and there’s nothing more annoying to a woman than a guy who is trying to be more macho, or cool than they he really is. She will find out the truth eventually so it’s best to be honest and upfront from the start.

Avoiding the dreaded ‘friend zone’:
Most men get trapped in the ‘friend zone’ by not letting the woman know early enough on in the encounter, or relationship, that they find her attractive. To get around this tell her you find something none obvious about her sexy, like her smile, or her nose. Don’t be too nice and try to add a little mystery by not fully answering all her questions and not just doing whatever she says. Don’t be afraid to challenge her, women love a guy that’s not a walkover. When trying to flirt with a girl engage her emotions by lightly touching her arm and seeing if she responds, the clue is in her body language, if she leans in close or returns the gesture you’re in luck.