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Ramadan Reminds Me About a Tragedy

The month of Ramadan reminds me about a tragedy that happened to one of my co-workers who was sent to jail and eventually was deported.

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In Saudi Arabia alone there are approximately 1.3 million Filipino registered workers serving as doctors, nurses, skilled technicians, janitors, laborers, hotel staff, accountants, engineers, housemaids, drivers, teachers and trainers, barbers, and in every other imaginable field. Despite the homesickness, which is our constant companion, we adjust to different races, cultures and standards of living. A few among us have been able to save money, build a house or make some investments, but the majority are overworked, abused, maltreated and under paid or even unpaid.

I still remember my co-worker who received his first and last Ramadan gift. The gift was unusual and it was a real nightmare for DingDong and also for all of us working in the same company. DingDong was a Filipino expat (his real name is withheld) was scheduled to leave the Kingdom on November 2, 2002. But his departure was rescheduled on November 16, 2002. The reason was that, the person to approve for his release was not around.

DingDong arrived in the Kingdom on December 03, 2001, to work as clerk/typist with the company I am working with. He was friendly and a hardworking employee. Sometimes he had some arguments with his co-office-mates but those were only jokes of the day with laughter and shouting.

DingDong’s nightmare started on September 23, 2002 (Saudi National Day) also for that year the month of Ramadan was approaching. At 7pm he left our flat to buy bread at Al Othaim supermarket – a walking distance from our flat but he was unable to return home. We got worried and surmised that he may have been abducted by some idiots and was desecrated and murdered. Usually when he goes out for shopping, in an hour or two he’s at home already. At around 12midnight we decided to report the missing DingDong to the police and the police assured us they would look for him.

The next day at the office, we received a call from the police informing us that DingDong was already in their custody handed by the religious Muttawas, who caught him at Al Othaim supermarket. The police reports stated, that the Muttawas charged DingDong with keeping earring, a small pendant cross and a small pamphlet of Christian bible kept in his wallet. Also he was suspected of being a woman/gay with his mushroom haircut, fair complexion, his smiles and preaching Christianity in the Kingdom.

Of course everybody in the office was surprised and believed that DingDong was innocent of those charges. That same day he was released. We asked him if those charges were true but he told us those were only allegations.

Now we thought the case was over but on November 6, 2002, the police called us again and instructed our company to prepare DingDong for deportation. They said that the religious Muttawas brought the case to court and their request was approved by the high court deporting him out of the Kingdom immediately. It was so sad to learn about the news, as DingDong will be deported soon.

On November 16, 2002, DingDong went to the immigration department escorted by a police officer and our company secretary to get his deportation clearance but he was not cleared on that day. The reason was that the officer was in Makkah. The police officer insisted that DingDong should be detained in their custody until such the time his clearance to depart out of the kingdom is materialized. And there, he was temporarily detained for days at Al–Batha Police Station, Riyadh City and later was transferred to the immigration office in Riyadh City. Finally on November 18, 2002, he received his early Ramadan gift; he left the Kingdom at 8:30 PM for Philippines.

There was fear and tensions in me at that time and thought what if it happened to me as well? What would I do? Whom I would ask for help, especially now our government is not responding quickly to help the many maltreated Filipinos in the Kingdom? Our government officials and political leaders call us, the Filipinos working abroad, modern-day heroes. That is an honor. But that is not what we are looking for from them!

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  1. Dreamy777

    On August 3, 2011 at 11:52 am


    informative article

  2. papaleng

    On August 3, 2011 at 11:58 am


    dude, kawawa naman si Dingdong, Hayaan mo, sa Christmas magpapa-deport din ako ng …/ Joke lang.

  3. Rosettaartist1

    On August 3, 2011 at 12:45 pm


    I got married on first day of Ramadan.

  4. lapasan

    On August 3, 2011 at 7:46 pm


    Poor guy. The problems of the Filipinos starts at home. There is lack of economic opportunities, that is why they have to go abroad to look for a job.

  5. pruelpo

    On August 4, 2011 at 12:04 am


    @Dreamy – thanks for appreciation.

  6. pruelpo

    On August 4, 2011 at 12:05 am


    @papaleng – nice suggestions. go ahead dude I’ll support you hekhekhek.

  7. pruelpo

    On August 4, 2011 at 12:06 am


    @Rosett – WoW. You are blessed. Thanks and Congrats!

  8. pruelpo

    On August 4, 2011 at 12:09 am


    @Lapasan – that is the core problem dude. I hope even though it is impossible for our government to address it. thanks.

  9. The Bling

    On August 4, 2011 at 7:56 am


    I’ve heard so much about the plight of OFWs in the Middle East and I salute them for going through all the sacrifice for their families. Bravo to OFWs like you!

  10. Ruby Hawk

    On August 4, 2011 at 8:27 am


    That is terrible, How scary that would be to be accused and detained by the police. I’m glad it turned our well.

  11. SharifaMcFarlane

    On August 4, 2011 at 3:58 pm


    That\’s terrible. The Phillipine embassy/consulate has to do more to protect the safety and welfare of OFWs.
    OFWs are there doing jobs the Saudis don\’t want to do or can\’t do.

  12. No Share

    On August 4, 2011 at 6:22 pm


    at least thats better than getting beheaded.just a thought, ive heard of nightmare stories about that

  13. foxpete88

    On August 4, 2011 at 10:59 pm


    very informative.thanks

  14. pruelpo

    On August 6, 2011 at 8:34 am


    Thank you Bling. Right. There are many great stories about them…

  15. pruelpo

    On August 6, 2011 at 8:35 am


    Welcome Foxpete and thank you too for your time. See you around again.

  16. pruelpo

    On August 6, 2011 at 8:41 am


    @Ruby, right it was really scary. Here it is not advisable to walk alone in the parks, shopping malls and other areas with a gold necklace or bracelet esp. for men – he will be put on hot water.

  17. pruelpo

    On August 6, 2011 at 8:44 am


    Right Sharifa – it is the duty of our consulate and embassy to protect us OFWs though they are lack of “care” for us.

  18. pruelpo

    On August 6, 2011 at 8:53 am


    @macherie – yes. It was better than getting beheaded though living inside a cell because of those unproven charges sometimes can make a person crazy thinking about it…

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