So you think you are close to your man? And you know how to push all his hot buttons to get him fired up for sex? No matter how good the communication between the two of you appears to be, there will always be things that your guy is afraid or unable to tell you about what he really want in the bed. And what that is can be separated in two lists, one reflecting the most important physical needs, and the other containing the most crucial emotion desires.
1.Good communication after sex.
A surprise here. Men actually want women to cuddle the before they rush off to the bathroom to clean up, a sign that the age of the “New Man” really exists. Many man like a bit of chit-chat at this point as well, so this would be a good time to say how much you enjoyed the whole experience.
2. Help with his erection.
This means working with your man, and not against him. You are emotionally involved with him and not just lying there keeping silent score in your head or waiting for him to prove something. Show him tenderness and affection as well as passion.
This means honesty about your sexual and physical health. One man had performed oral sex on his partner, only to be told later that she was menstruating! Another mad had used his partner’s bathroom after sex, only to discover her STD (sexually transmitted disease) appointment card lying for all the world to see on top of the toilet. Let him know if there are reasons when sex would not be ideal and you really would prefer to have a cup of tea instead. It may be embarrassing for you, as a women, to tell all, so may be just saying “It’s the wrong time of the month”, will be enough. However, it is possible to have sex during your period, if you so desire, by using a diaphragm, which temporarily holds back the flow of blood. It is, as they say, all a matter of taste.