16 Things That Must Go Along with Sex

Sexual intercourse is an intimate act created by God Almighty.  It must be used by adults who share the bonds of love in marriage.  Consequently, sex should be a healthy habit that brings out the best in each partner. During the act there are a number of things that take place that either turn off a partner or cause the activity become ritual habit and sometimes tempt the partner to be unfaithful by going off with someone else. 

There are a number of things to do to bring about excitement and health to both partners. Examine these 16 things that must go along with sex  intercourse.  Why not apply them according to your taste?

1. Talk to your mate during the sex  act.  Speak lovingly, kind and softly. This will enhance your communication skills remember you are communicating in more than one ways.  Your entire being is involve so why not be verbal as well?

2. Worship. Wow! you say, yes sex is an act of worship! This is the most intimate union /act known to creation. Consequently, nothing is wrong with  saying a prayer. Remember a number  persons  in different parts of the world  or even in your community would  be happy to have  clean sex but  they do not have loving mates plus they are not at liberty to make a decision to share in such beautiful union. So since you have the opportunity to have sex why not give thanks in prayer?

3. Prepare for new adventures. This activity is not boring , there is  number exploration to do  and sometimes crying comes or even laughter – why not enjoy both types of emotions. Put away your hair  and anything that will  be a cause for discomfort.

4. Value you partner’s  body. We are all unique. Sometimes circumstances cause us to not to have our ideal  body type so do not compare.  Plus whatever your past sexual activity was  leave those things behind. Congratulate your partner for that which he has or what she has.

5. Have a surprise. Soft loving music can start  the act, then prepare a favourite drink or serve some  ice cream and both of you can share and talk about your enjoyment.

6. Give thanks. It is wisdom to say thanks in a tangible way.  Why not give a prepared “thank you card” after sexual coitus. It might not be read immediately but you’ll never know.

7.  Admire his /her body. This is means of bringing out the best in you mate and helping to bring loyalty and appreciation  to the relationship.

8. Sleep first. Be fresh and attentive so both of you can enjoy the sex act and it will not be a one sided affair.

9. Be creative. Always change you timing for sexual intercourse. It works wonders.

10. Involve modern technology. Call your husband or wife  on the cell phone and invite him/her to your special sporting activity,include place and time.  Your partner will be wow and be responsive.

11. Have a cold bath together. This activity led to cuddling and you know!

12. Show and tell. Both of you can have show and tell night.  Here both are learning in a loving classroom.

13. Undress each mate.  Another activity that allow for excitement and another side to each other.

14.  Use different parts of your home. You are in the privacy of your own home so use other areas of the home.  A different environment gives some  amount amusement. Plus when children come around you are prevented  but  you can reminiscent on these things and laugh about  it.

15. Seek to ensure that both of you are comfortable.  Respect and comfort are keys to have by both of you enjoying the sex act. Once both of you are on the same page, great movements will take place.

16. Be physically filled. According to my mother “sex on hungry belly is poison”so it is prudent to eat so you are not hungry.

I hope your reading would have given ideas to a healthy and joyous sex life.