A Marriage Without Sex: Is It in Trouble?

Sex in a marriage is important but a couple will survive without it:

Yes, sex is an important part of keeping a happy marriage but sometimes there are reasons why a couple cannot have sex, i.e., sicknesses, mental problems, a child with a serious health problem, and there could be other medical reasons too. There are times in some marriage when either the man or woman is having sex problems due to reasons that are beyond their help and they need to seek a professionals help to return to having a sexual relationship.

I don’t know about you readers, but as for me, when we take an oath in our marriage, we take it in sickness and in health, and we should live by our oath to each other. When a person is in unconditional love with a person, they do not want to have sex with another person because they have understanding and compassion for their loved one. There’s no-one who wants to do without a sexual intimacy in their marriage or relationship, but if our mate is unable to perform, we should show them love, attention, respect and allow them to know we can sense their regrets for not being able to have sex with us. When there is lots of love and respect for our mates, we do not have to go out and seek sexual satisfaction with another person just for self- gratification.

Do most people seek sexual satisfaction with another person?:

Many of the people in our society feels their sexual urge is so great and satisfaction is a requirement for them and they will not live up to their oath to their spouse and they stray. Don’t you think this is selfish? Do you think their love is unconditional? What if they get a venereal disease from another person and take it to their mate? What is sex anyway, I view it as an intimate relationship to share between two people who are in love to bond their union in their relationship, and I certainly do not think sex with anyone other than a person you’re in love with would be anything but pure lust and self-satisfaction. After you’ve strayed from the relationship, can you live with yourself? Don’t you know you’ve committed a betrayal to your marriage and your family (if there is one), and you’ve gone out of your boundaries of the marriage or relationship?    

Sex naturally draws a couple together and bonds a relationship to be as one. It allows them to have an intimate relationship where they can open up and show love, desires, and wishes with their mate. When a man and woman is not able to have sex, this is the time for both of them to show compassion, love, and understanding about the situation they’re having. Each one should allow their mate to feel your love is “real” all the time, regardless of what comes against them and they’ll make it through this difficult time together.