Probably one of the most debated issues is how we keep the spark in the relationship, and how we can prevent routine. The truth is that can never be the same as in the beginning, especially after you already left to take hold routine your relationship. But anyway you can improve things … or you can prevent them.
Here are some tips to keep your relationship at odds … hot.
Play together and create a “box of fantasies.” On separate pieces of paper asterneti your every fantasy , wrap them and then put them in the box. When you’re in the right mood, pull one at random. And then put it into practice.
Make shopping together. But not just any, but sex toys shopping - either online or in store. It is a great opportunity to spend time together and find out what everyone likes.
How about some art? Paint your edible paint each other’s bodies. Or improvised with something from the fridge such as cream or chocolate syrup.
Bring in your game sexually and find a small vibrator exciting ways to use it. For example, you can use it while you oral sex.
Do not ever make a substantial meal before sex. If you hope to have part of some action later, eat something light.
Tie your partner to your eye and focus on different sensations (flakes, ice, massage oil, etc..).
Get into the mood with candles, music, light and perhaps a glass of wine. Give yourself time when you want to get into the atmosphere of the moment.
Plan a sexual affair - one night surprise that each of you must come up with a different sexual adventure to another (make sure you get all the “tools” needed).Let your imagination go, be creative, have fun.
Keep your underwear on. Instead it caress your partner with various sensual, caressing him through. Walk your hands on your body, experiment with oral sexetc through lingerie.
Wear sexy lingerie under your clothes – or not wear at all. Then go to dinner and tease your parneterul letting it peek from time to time.
Hide a picture of you naked, in your partner’s briefcase or jacket pocket to make sure that later will get a surprise “naughty.”
Give a little fragrant oil in a hidden place on your body, a place that you know your partner kissing.
Try sex in places “dangerous” such as elevator, car, airplane, restaurant, toilet, and even in the garage when her grandmother takes care of the child.
Put a latch on the bathroom door and not be afraid to use it. Even children – would be appropriate to learn to knock at the door.
Do not forget the Kegel muscles . When your partner withdraws, flex your muscles as if you want to keep him inside. This will create more friction for him – and for you.
Resist the temptation to reach orgasm . Delay time and enjoy the sensuality and eroticism of the act. When finally happens, it will be even more intense and enjoyable.
Understand the differences between the sexes. Women typically like to be brought slowly to the excitement and do not like when your partner goes directly to the nipples or genitals. Men, on the other hand, have mainly one bigerogenous zone - genital organs. One way to appease both would be that you’re giving him manual stimulation, while he caresses and kisses you gently.
For some women, direct clitoral stimulation can be too intense. It would be appropriate to tell him that and your partner. Let him try a little to the left, slightly right, exploring all options and learning to meet you.
Maintain eye contact during sex and especially during orgasm. This may enhance both intimacy and intensity.
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