A Woman’s View of Porn

Porn at its worst can be sad and comical. Porn at its best can be stylishly shot and erotic. On the whole though its the first of the two. Why because its made by men for men. Why is it that the biggest porn stars ever, Ron Jeremy and Peter Holmes are two ugly out of shape guys who would struggle to pick up a cold if in a bar. The reason why is because Joe Average out there with the beer belly and hairy back could imagine himself having amazing sex with barbi doll type women.

Then as a woman you know that the girls are faking it because what is being done to them cannot bring about orgasm…. its all about making the man feel like all he has to do is reveal his manhood and the woman just goes into ecstasies. I love sexy and the erotic and its not the above its about sensuality and a build up. Its glimpses before the full unrobing, its breathing, husky voices good lighting and two people of appropriate ages and equal attractiveness. Its real and honest. Its the kind of stuff where fantasy can become reality.

Funnily enough the best lovers in the world profess to be the French. Ok they might be overstretching their prowess but they make very sexy mainstream films which often involve very erotic, sexy and honest love scenes. Their stars are not airbrushed cartoon characters but real people in everyday situations. You will not find 18 year old cheerleaders gang banging here for the delight of middle aged males out there. But you will find sexy vital real women who know what they want and are not afraid to ask for it.

It is so strange that younger men tend to want an experienced sexy women and dont feel threatened by their confidence. Whilst middle aged men seem to suddenly hanker after the girls just about old enough to be their daughter. One only has to look at the majority of porn on the net to realise the biggest market is college girls go crazy, college girls unleashed,  young and horny etc.  think its also because an older man thinks he will be in control and a younger woman will be more submissive to his needs because of the way they are portrayed as brainless bimbos who need lessons in love.

As a middle aged women and having spoken and listened to lots of girl friends over the years it is the opposite. When i was younger i wanted hot fit young guys with amazing stomachs and tiny butts but now i am a woman i want a man not a boy. Its hard for us woman to understand how a middle aged guy with a paunch would even want to inflict himself on some young fit woman when he is somewhat physically a shadow of his former self. If i fantasise i want my fantasies to lie in reality..

So if i watch porn it has to be erotic real and sensual and minus the horror story that is Ron Jeremy and the late Peter Holmes.