Action Sammy’s Dating Tips: How Much Sex is Too Much?

One of the most common questions about relationships that people ask is just how much sex should you have? And the most common answer to this question is it depends on how much both you and your partner like it.

Well, then! That answers the question. No need for this article, right? Hold it. Not so fast…

Now, first of all, and I’ve said it many times already, sex is very important in a relationship. It is part of what makes the bond between a man and woman very special. It is part of the romance and lust that you feel for your partner and it helps separate the love you feel for your partner from the love you feel for your family and friends. Without sex, there’s technically no relationship. And you run the risk of having your partner seek fulfillment elsewhere or worse, leaving you.

But, while sex is very important in a relationship, too much of it can be just as damaging to the relationship as no sex at all. Having it too frequently also runs the risk premature boredom with one another and can also lead to one or both partners soon seeking more elsewhere. Couples who have sex nearly every night are usually the first to start seeking ways to spice up sex lives since they’ve usually already tried every possible method. And it is couples who have sex every night who are the first to seek “alternative” ways to spice up their sex lives. These are the couples who get into the “swinging” lifestyle and feel the need to see the partner with someone else.

So, as you can see, too much sex isn’t a good thing, either.

Having sex at just right frequency can be very helpful to the relationship. It keeps both partners from getting bored with one another and feeling the need to seek enjoyment elsewhere. Having it not too often can help both partners maintain a healthy amount of desire and lust for one another. With just the right amount of time space between nights of lovemaking will making each session extremely enjoyable and worth the wait.

If you’ve been having every night or every other night and you’re beginning to feel yourself becoming bored with your partner then it’s time to stop. Take a breather. Take about two weeks off. Yeah, that’s exactly what I said – two weeks! A whole month would be even better. Get together with your partner and discuss how often you’re going to do it and what days you’ll do it. A pretty decent amount of sex is once or twice a week. This gives you time to work up energy and it helps make the love session far better than it would if you just had sex the night before. It’ll make you even more crazy about one another. Also, the less often you do it the more you’re able to put into it when the special night comes. You would have energy for multiple rounds that night.

After you’ve settled into the routine and you start to feel boredom pick a night where you’ll “surprise” your partner. Take him/her when he/she least expects it. Join your partner in the shower. Or sneak up from behind while he/she is busy. But again, don’t do it too often.

See the following related articles by this author: What If The Sex is Bad?, Proper Oral Sex, Non-kinky Ways For Couples to Rejuvenate Their Sex Lives, When And How To Bring Up Sex, If Your Partner Doesn’t Like Sex.