Are You Sexually Compatible with Your Partner?

Desire to have sex: The desire to have sex may be more for one of the partners. In other words, one of the partners may have higher sexual urge and hence would like to enjoy sex to his/her fullest satisfaction. So he/she may keep on demanding it from the partner often. The partner on the other hand may feel like being disturbed too much. They may get annoyed and may hate having sex at one stage. The sexually more active partner will feel hurt. They may feel like rejected by the partner.

Sex drive differs from one person to another: I think there are three types of people on this Earth. One is those who have immense sex appetite. It may be due to the hormones and their body set up. Some may lack sex drive and again it is due to their hormones and body set up and they are the second type. In my opinion we can’t blame those who have excess sex urges and those who are short of sex desires. Those who have average sex drive are blessed people and are the third type.

Compatibility: However if you are a sexually more active person, you can partner with one who also has higher sex drive. If you are an average person, you can team up with an average person. Similarly you can partner with a less sexually active person if you are having less sex drive. (It is not practically possible in most cases, so if you get a perfect match you are lucky, otherwise you need to adjust to your partner’s sexual intensity)

How to match your partner?: Suppose if you are a sexually more active person, you can stimulate your partner’s physical desires as much as possible. You can also try to reduce your urges within your capacities. There are many ways of increasing your sexual feelings such as using creams, sprays, medicines and watching porn etc… You can try yoga and meditation to slow down your physical urges.

How often you want to have sex?: This also differs from person to person. If you want to have sex more frequently than your partner, again the problem rises. Some people may need sex many times a day when they are young. They may need it at least once when they age. On the other hand some may want it once or twice in a month and not more than that. If you are not compatible with your partner, you need to match them by increasing or reducing your libido.