Asexuality is a general term or self-designation for people who do not
exhibit sexual attraction, or who otherwise find sexual behavior unappealing.
There is debate as to whether this is a sexual dysfunction or a sexual orientation.
Unlike celibacy, which is a choice, asexuality is a sexual orientation. Asexual
people have the same emotional needs as everybody else and are just as capable of
forming intimate relationships.

What causes these people to have no desire for sex? Is this the same issue as those
who suffer from sex addictions or is it more of a hormonal imbalance. Do all of the
Asexuals have the same painful childhood or sexual traumatic experience? What makes
some of us sex crazy and others the opposite. Is this truly a new sex orientation
or myth run a mock.”I have never felt sexually attracted to anyone at all.”
Activists have already started campaigning to promote awareness and acceptance of
asexuality.

Asexual people have the same emotional needs as anyone else, and like in the sexual
community we vary widely in how we fulfill those needs. Some asexual people are happier
on their own, others are happiest with a group of close friends. Other asexual people
have a desire to form more intimate romantic relationships, and will date and seek
long-term partnerships. Asexual people are just as likely to date sexual people as we
are to date each other.

Sexual or nonsexual, all relationships are made up of the same
basic stuff. Communication, closeness, fun, humor, excitement and trust all happen just
as much in sexual relationships as in nonsexual ones. Figuring out how to flirt, to be
intimate, or to be monogamous in a nonsexual relationships can be challenging, but free
of sexual expectations they can form relationships in ways that are grounded in our
individual needs and desires. Many asexual people experience attraction, but they feel
no need to act out that attraction sexually. Instead they feel a desire to get to know
someone, to get close to them in whatever way works best for us. Asexual people who
experience attraction will often be attracted to a particular gender, and will identify
as gay, bi, or straight.

For some sexual arousal is a fairly regular occurrence, though it is not associated with a
desire to find a sexual partner or partners. Some will occasionally masturbate, but feel no
desire for partnered sexuality. Other asexual people experience little or no arousal.

Because
we don’t care about sex, asexual people generally do not see a lack of sexual arousal as a
problem to be corrected, and focus their energy on enjoying other types of arousal and
pleasure. There is no litmus test to determine if someone is asexual. Asexuality is like
any other identity- at its core, it’s just a word that people use to help figure themselves
out.