Being “Nice” in Bed is Mean to Your Girl!

It always amazes me at just how many men think that the key to giving a woman great sex is to just be NICE in the bedroom. I’m talking about asking her what she wants, asking her how you are doing, asking her if she’s “there” yet, etc, etc, etc.

“Women are not attracted to WUSSIES in the bedroom!”

No sir! Girls don’t want a guy who asks them what to do and takes orders like a puppy. Girls want a man who isn’t afraid to pin them down and throw them around and literally… ROCK a woman’s worlds! Now, I’m not saying a man should be a “jerk” when he is having sex… I but I DO mean that the man needs to be authoritative and IN CHARGE! This definitely extends to a man’s dating and relationship life as well, but for the purpose of RAPID SEXUAL IMPROVEMENT I want to show you right now how to use authority in the bedroom and LEAD your girl to stronger orgasms =)

So let’s get right into it…First of all, WHAT being authoritative in the bedroom REALLY is can be explained very simply:

It’s all about you being a MAN! You see, when you start asking questions and catering to your woman, her sexual attraction towards you INSTANTLY SHUTS OFF. I don’t mean to get too ” biological” on you, but think about this… Woman are naturally drawn to men who are leaders and protectors. In caveman days, woman would go after the strongest man… the LEADER of the tribe. Aka the guy who would hunt down the prey and clobber any enemies. I know, I know, your mother and your sister tell you you should be nice to women. And you should! But in the bedroom, what women REALLY want is the same guy that in the caveman days would be leading the hunt =) Women want you men to take charge and lead them by:

Telling them how turned on you are (the man)

Doing them HARD! (there, I said it!)

Using positions in which you the guy have TOTAL CONTROL! Such as “doggy style” (which is often a woman’s favorite position… they love it because they feel like they are being “taken”!)

Having them go down on you (the guy) and be there for YOUR pleasure!

I’m in no way saying make your girl do anything she (or you) isn’t comfortable with. But what I AM saying is your girl is going to be most turned on when you:

Do not ask what position to use and INSTEAD grab and her put her into it!

Lightly pull her hair during doggy style and give her ass a little slap =) Talk dirty on occasion and ravish her – and yes tell her what panties to wear!

Set up romantic evenings that you plan WITHOUT asking her what she wants (Here’s a hint: “Romance” is her feeling that YOU know what she wants EVEN BETTER than she does)

The whole point of this article is to open your eyes (for you men out there) that when you stop being “nice” to your girl in bed, and start taking authority and taking CONTROL, you will be pleasantly surprised by how much your girl likes it… AND how much easier it is for her to have intense, mind-blowing orgasms! Once you start, don’t be surprised if SHE takes it the next level by telling you to do her harder, or being COMPLETELY submissive to you and even orgasming on your command… I hope this article has opened your eyes (you men out there) a little bit… but the next step is for you to go and TRY THIS STUFF OUT! You won’t know just how powerful it is until you start doing it =)

Stavros A (Artist Name: DJ Gosh Fire http://www.youtube.com/djgoshfire)

Self Employed Music Producer-Composer, Marketer (Content Writer, Article & Web Writer)