Easy Ways to Get Her in the Mood

Guys, it’s like the Holy Grail.  Your woman wanting nothing more than you in bed as soon as humanly possible.  It seems like a dream to many as it’s hard to get her in the mood anymore.  Either the bedroom has gotten repetitive and boring or she just doesn’t seem to want it anymore more (which is often the same as the first reason but she’s the only one bored).  Well, I’ll let you in on a secret, boys, women are the worries of the human race.  We worry about this that and the other, whether we admit it or not, and we do especially when we have kids, it’s that good ol’ mothering instinct that always has us worried that we’re doing the right things for our children and what not.

For most women there are things their partners could do that would help us worry less and are much cheaper than prescriptions, creams and more; helping around the house (no groaning guys, remember this will help you get what you’re wanting and possibly even begging for).  It’s cheap and a lot easier than you think!  All that worrying we do is hard to shut off and is often the foundation of the barrier that is keeping us from letting loose and enjoying ourselves, and you. 

So men, take some time to help her out around the house, you’ll be amazed with how little you really have to do to help out.  One of the greatest things a guy can do?  Take care of the kid, get a babysitter if you have to, and make dinner for a night while you send her to the bathroom with a bottle of bubble bath, some scented candles and a CD player and let her spend an hour or two by herself (which means NO interruptions- you or the kids), then have dinner ready (and maybe the house picked up if she didn’t have time that day) and surprise her when she gets out.  Trust me guys she will be so happy you did or at least tried.  Oh and flowers and a card, a thank you, I love you, or simply a thinking of you card, are always an added bonus!