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Erogenous Zones: Touch Me, Touch Me Now

Would you know where to find your partner’s erogenous zones? More importantly, would you care?

Erogenous zones, would you know where to find them? More importantly would you care?

We have all heard of them but do we know where they all are?

The skin that covers our bodies has different receptors all over it but some places are of a heightened sensitivity and the gentle stimulation of these places can cause erotic sensations and even sexual excitement.  In the erogenous zone areas the nerve endings are nearer to the surface of the skin, they are dotted around us from head to toe but most of them just get ignored as we go straight for the obvious ones.

 

There is nothing more pleasurable than feeling skin on skin and as we place ourselves together for an embrace a lot of our erogenous zones touch automatically, that’s why cuddling front-to-front or back to front can be such a pleasurable experience.

As a woman lifts her arms around her lovers neck she is exposing many zones on the inside of her arms, especially the inside of her elbow, which if gently caressed with the tips of your fingers can drive her wild as the nerve endings go pop and send wave upon wave of pleasure convulsing through her body. If she is rubbing the top of her foot on the under side of your foot this also will be a pleasure for her. If you both rub the tops of your feet together you could both be going pop before you know it!

When a woman flirts she will often tilt her head to one side, showing her ear lobes and neck more visibly, she is offering her erogenous zones.

Down the sides and front of the neck, under the jaw line and the back of the neck, which is were your hands automatically go when embracing and especially for men who have a scalp packed with rich nerve endings the head.

The armpit doesn’t mind a little tickle sometimes either and the smell of a fresh mans arm pit is said to change a woman’s menstrual cycle.

The chest of both parties has many erogenous zones. Around the nipple on the skin of the breast as well as on the nipples themselves is very erogenous. Some women report a nipple orgasm when the breasts are sucked and fondled; this is because the nipples share the same line as the genitals.

When we kiss, suck and nibble our lips become engorged with blood pushing those zones right back at you, so take your time and linger on the lips. 

As your hands travel down the body to the small of the back, linger and stroke these receptors to bring a fuzzy and elicit smile to the face.

Down on the lower stomach near the genitals, this area is hot with erogenous zones and also at the top of the leg around the bikini line.

The buttocks on a woman respond very well to a light touch or even a little spank but don’t be to rough, your teasing the erogenous areas not sending a bull on his way.

The soft skin on the back of your knees can be as rewarding when stroked as the inner elbow and don’t forget the inner thighs, very nice place for a woman.

The feet are known to release pheromones and having them massaged can be the sexiest of actions, a lot of men and women like having their toes sucked but this is optional!

Obviously there are the ones on and around our genitals but I think we have all probably found these by now!

We often forget how to love and there are many ways, apart from the normal. Getting to know your own body and your lover’s body so the zones are presented many times a day, which they are, can only heighten your sexual awareness.

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  1. Frances Lawrence

    On October 25, 2009 at 8:17 am


    I think the feelings vary from person to person.

  2. giftarist

    On October 25, 2009 at 8:17 am


    A very interesting read..Thanks for sharing!

  3. Papa Sparks

    On October 25, 2009 at 8:18 am


    Well-written and an interesting read.

  4. David Crerand

    On October 25, 2009 at 9:06 am


    As always you display a wealth of knowledge on your subject. You must enjoy your research! Well written.

  5. ken bultman

    On October 25, 2009 at 9:29 am


    I always end up in the No Parking zone.

  6. deep blue

    On October 25, 2009 at 10:13 am


    How I wish I could be 17 again and live life like Giacomo Girolamo Casanova but STD provides the balance. I was reminded of a scene in Demolition Man where sex is practiced via brainwaves without the exchange of body fluids. Perhaps the world needs a lot of imagination these days and a limited contact with a permanent partner for health reasons. You are always good at what you do best. I mean what you write best, lol.x

    Cheers,

    Will

  7. Paul Roberts

    On October 25, 2009 at 10:15 am


    Communication can lead to the pleasure. What is erognous for one can be pure misery or discomfort to the other. Friend, fan, smile. Thanks for the mature presentation of this info.

  8. lillyrose

    On October 25, 2009 at 10:16 am


    Most of that was common sense then when I thought about it the hugging and your zones touching was just perfect, that is why we hug, lovers, children or who ever, its because it sets off the nerves of happiness! :-) and makes us feel better.

  9. Frosty Johnson

    On October 25, 2009 at 10:47 am


    Great info as usual lil.

  10. jimbob1

    On October 25, 2009 at 11:36 am


    Thank you L for yet another wonderful write and great read…all too often the “non-genital” zones get overlooked and ignored. I had a massage therapist who was always anxious to massage my feet…but nobody touches my feet I’m so ticklish that I even have a difficult time touching them!!!

  11. alc

    On October 25, 2009 at 12:40 pm


    A nice article! I learn something new everyday!

  12. chantell

    On October 25, 2009 at 1:02 pm


    Thanks for sharing

  13. Mark Gordon Brown

    On October 25, 2009 at 1:35 pm


    Well I guess the message here is Practice Practice Practice until we get those zones right. Maybe if more people were focusing on their erogenous zones the world would be a better place.

  14. lillyrose

    On October 25, 2009 at 1:59 pm


    I couldn’t agree more Mark.

  15. Christine Ramsay

    On October 25, 2009 at 2:12 pm


    Thank you for a great lesson in the art of love.

    Christine

  16. Sourav

    On October 25, 2009 at 3:01 pm


    And your Art of Love lesson continues…

  17. STEVE666

    On October 28, 2009 at 1:57 pm


    Yeah, good write. Maybe, while you’re on the theme, you could do an article explaining this damn illusive G-spot!

  18. lillyrose

    On October 28, 2009 at 4:31 pm


    hahaha… I could do steve but I kept that article strictly non genital!

  19. LOVELYHONEY

    On October 30, 2009 at 10:41 am


    lovely feles lovelier

    and sexier

    reading ur article

    it does tickle lovely

    just love is lovely

    as is sex

  20. oldster

    On October 31, 2009 at 7:48 pm


    Well explained Lilly–ticklish subject well tackled.
    You forgot the shoe zone–Women love the shoe zone.

  21. V rank

    On November 1, 2009 at 10:03 pm


    Reading ur article tickles my zones as well.. hehe.. just kidding.. Well thought of..

  22. Wennie Estares

    On November 5, 2009 at 3:16 am


    How I wish to find more of that….

  23. guest

    On December 8, 2009 at 2:13 pm


    love that picture

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