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Faking Orgasm Among The Men Folk: Many Men Have Confessed to Doing It

For many of the men out there, the case of pretending or faking orgasm has always been bundled out as a sexual “crime” for which only women were guilty. Now a new research has revealed that even men are very much guilty.

For many of the men out there, the case of pretending or faking orgasm has always been bundled out as a sexual “crime” for which only women were guilty.  However, recent studies by human sex scientists have revealed that men are equally very guilty of pretending orgasm. At first, this sounded ludicrous to me because if you are a man, you know that orgasmic release is so intertwined with ejaculation that it is almost inconceivable that any man can get about pretending orgasm.

Research by eminent scholars like Zilbergel have found out that  some men actually pretended orgasm especially if  they are keen  not to make their sexual  partners  know that they had  not orgasmed  and they did not know how else to end sexual activity. This is a unique case scenario that has often been attributed to the fantasy model of sex where a man is always interested in and ready for sex which he equates invariably with intercourse and orgasm. When a man   is cornered with this kind of mentality, he can’t help faking an organism, because not to fake one would amount to having failed in the game of sex

The other scenario where men fake orgasm is when these men go into sex with a mind pre-occupied with erection and the singular objective to give their partners earthshaking orgasms. When a man approaches sex with this kind of mind set, then the inclination to pretend orgasm to meet these expectations become very high and attractive.

In a study conducted on the subject of pretending orgasm, it was found  out that 78% of the men admitted to acting out an orgasm  and some of the specific methods that most men used  were moaning or making other vocalizations, moving or thrusting faster or harder, clenching their muscles and acting spent or exhausted. It however remains a fact that women are more favored in the game of pretending orgasm than men because they have more options of pretending with impunity.

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  1. tiffi

    On February 9, 2011 at 1:26 pm


    mmmh very interesting

  2. lillyrose

    On February 9, 2011 at 1:50 pm


    Do the men have to ejaculate to have an orgasm? Or can the sperm come out without the man being turned on and at the point of orgasm? Like in a wet dream or rape?
    It is okay for men to not orgasm but not if it happens lots, surely that would need addressing.
    Very interesting article Gabby, one I would like to find out more about.

  3. Christine Ramsay

    On February 9, 2011 at 1:54 pm


    You surprise me. I never thought men could fake it.

    Christine

  4. Sharif Ishnin

    On February 9, 2011 at 3:14 pm


    Well that is really an interesting discovery.

  5. Eliseu Ferreira

    On February 9, 2011 at 3:58 pm


    Hey! This is very curious and interesting.
    I never did.

  6. LoveDoctor

    On February 9, 2011 at 4:06 pm


    Lilyrose is funny. lol.

    This is another very good article that you have written. This is new to me as well. I didn’t know that men could fake orgasms.

  7. magus magus

    On February 9, 2011 at 6:14 pm


    mhm..gooooood post:)

  8. CA Johnson

    On February 9, 2011 at 7:47 pm


    This is definitely an interesting subject. I am like Christine. I did not think men could fake orgasms.

  9. DaYong

    On February 9, 2011 at 8:09 pm


    wow…i never would have expected that! haha great share!

  10. Eunice Tan

    On February 9, 2011 at 9:57 pm


    Interesting!!!

  11. wonder

    On February 10, 2011 at 1:27 am


    Another side of the story.Good.

  12. Anuradha Ramkumar

    On February 10, 2011 at 1:32 am


    That’s news. I never thought men could fake orgasms.

  13. Jimmy Shilaho

    On February 10, 2011 at 1:27 pm


    Interesting phenomenon. Things must have really changed for men to fake it too, a queer habit indeed.

  14. SharifaMcFarlane

    On February 10, 2011 at 3:31 pm


    Lol. Sometimes there is too much pressure on men. They can genuinely be too tired for sex sometimes too.

  15. Jerry Bradford aka Jerry Atrixx

    On February 11, 2011 at 2:29 pm


    I am neither gay nor impotent. However I have “faked” orgasm on two different occasions but for the same reason in both instances.. FYI, there was no “physical evidence” and I confessed to her afterward which freaked her out actually.

  16. Jerry Bradford aka Jerry Atrixx

    On February 11, 2011 at 2:30 pm


    Frankly, it was taking too long and I was bored. Long lovemaking sessions are not the ideal if the means lack luster.

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