Fantastic Sex

Having worked as a private life coach and relationship expert for many years,  and helping some rich and famous clients, I know how people tick.  Everything and anything that has anything to do with people, relationships, sex, love, romance and lust has passed through my office and I have helped with it.

Most of us are able to get ordinary sex easily enough, but why settle for that when you can get fantastic sex?  Fantastic sex is where the person is right, the situation is right, the place is right and you can be totally relaxed. You are not worried about a husband barging through the front door and giving you a black eye,  or being blackmailed, or the woman getting pregnant or giving you a nasty disease.  You are not worried about her charging you a lot of money for sex or whether or not she wants to see you again.  All of this is properly sorted so that you can get down to the sex itself.

This means that the first thing you have to do to get your fantastic sex is find the perfect woman.  How to find the perfect woman means you use a mixture of skill, patience and determination and never settle for an ordinary one or one with baggage or problems instead.

Now remember that even if you went into this idea thinking of just wanting a one night stand or a casual fling this may all change when you find this perfect woman.  It would be a bit silly.. sorry, very silly, to find the best woman available and then dump her for one that is not as good as her.  But if you want to think about just having affairs fair enough.  Are affairs worth it? 

Now you need to make the most of yourself if you are going to find a woman to have fantastic sex with!  If You are scruffy or dirty or smelly or wearing tatty old boring clothes it will not work. You also need some charm and to be friendly and caring towards women.  Hot sex is not just handed on a plate to any man who is frustrated and fancies some!    You need to know how to seduce a woman,    how to turn on a woman  and how to get a woman into bed.   How to get a woman to have sex with you is very important as fantastic sex will never happen until you have got the woman to fancy you in the first place.

You might want to try phone sex before so that you can practice on the phone with willing women.  Whatever your particular sort of sex is or your fetishes they can help  you to understand them and enact them verbally so that when it comes to the real thing it is far easier for you.

The key to fantastic sex is to turn on the woman so that she loves to be with you and wants to spend as much time with you as possible.  If your idea of sex is to jump on top of her and force it in and cum quicky then you are being selfish and that woman will lose interest in you. Women need to be turned on slowly,  where you use your hands, fingers and mouth as well as your penis.  You need to warm her up and get her ready with a lot of foreplay before you get to the best bit.  If you can learn to make it last a long time then she  can be sure of having an orgasm and enjoying the whole thing and you will have a woman who wants to see you a lot. Then you can practice together to get it to become fantastic together.  No man can have fantastic sex if he just sees the woman as someone to jump on and enjoy as though it is all for him.