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Flirty Signals! Have You Got What It Takes?

We are all looking for a mate, how do you tell if the opposite sex is interested in you. Can we instinctively recognise the signs.

All around the animal kingdom males and females seek to attract the opposite sex. We were born purely to procreate. The peacock male will fan out his tail in courtship and the mare will lift her tail and squirt urine filled by the scent of musk to let a stallion know she is ready for mating. In the human world the male will take up as big a space as possible. Shoulders square, chest thrust out.

In the human society the physical appearance in both the male and female, change some what from culture to culture. What we are looking for in a partner is someone healthy and fit to mate with. The men choose the bigger breasts and hourglass figures because its thought they are the perfect image of a woman fit for childbirth. And the woman would choose the strong, broad shouldered man, with the deep voice and neat bottom. However these things do change with fashion and circumstance and even within our own society these attributes vary. Some men prefer an athletic looking woman with small, firm breasts. While some woman would choose money and security above all else.

Women who have the perfect mating attributes but are not giving off any go ahead signals are likely to be more noticed by men, but men more often than not would not go for them, they would rather take their chances with a woman that’s giving of the right signals, or has the signals and the right mating attributes. They want a healthy woman to give them lots of children. But all being fair a woman who picks security and money in her mate is probably more likely to go off seeking sexual excitement with someone who does not fit into those criteria.   

We know from studies that the courtship signals win hands down as apposed to looks, and after all beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What one may find spine tingling erotic, another may not.

Instinctively we all know the right signals. The wiggle of a woman’s bottom draws attention to her hips. Pouting lips and thrust forward or squashed together breast detail her sex.

In the same way a man will bring himself to full height and lower his voice to outline his.

In the animal kingdom it is usually the male that does all the courtship rituals, advertising the fact he is healthy, fit and strong. In the human world women normally do it. Women are the ones who advertise their sexuality, dressing up nice, having their hair done and wearing makeup. In the seventeenth century men were the ones who wore the makeup and dressed up but the women didn’t. I think within today’s younger society things are more equal, the men and women like to smell good and have their hair done. So do the signals from each sex still stand?

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  1. Papa Sparks

    On September 21, 2009 at 11:15 am


    Another well-written and interesting literary styling from you; nicely done my friend!

  2. Darla Cooke

    On September 21, 2009 at 11:37 am


    Interesting article.

  3. Marie Milton

    On September 21, 2009 at 11:48 am


    Loved this Lilly : )) Loved it down to the ground!!!
    It is funny, I just read this article after a sort-of-family-friend just left. We both give off signals to each other but it never goes any further ; )). Perhaps we\’re both waiting for the right time *wink* : )
    Again, this is a great article on a VERY important subject : )) Good Job.

  4. Lostash

    On September 21, 2009 at 5:15 pm


    I’m still waiting for the elusive soul-mate…..maybe my signals are on red all the time???

  5. Rajesh Kumar Ram

    On September 21, 2009 at 9:29 pm


    very interesting indeed!

  6. Jane Jane

    On September 22, 2009 at 8:59 am


    good post from you. interesting and fun to read.=)

  7. BradONeill

    On September 22, 2009 at 7:51 pm


    Interesting article and here I am reading it after being committed for life. What does that say??? Oh well I enjoyed it even if it is something forever behind me. Sniffle. :)

  8. LilRoastBeef

    On September 24, 2009 at 5:32 pm


    amazingly well written article, and I do notice that about myself (voice gets deeper, chest gets bigger, arms are wider)…..I probably look like a jack-a$$ when I do that…

  9. LOVELYHONEY

    On September 25, 2009 at 2:22 pm


    i like the way u display nudity in its natural form thats what women were supposed to display , like ADAM AND EVE never had a tailor god willed it that way now humans which are only 4 percent behind chimps genetic profile are fast catching up in nude MEDITATION ,NUDE YOGA and as you have displayed beutiful naked women sufficient to attract the mounting dominating was the word i was seeking male libido

  10. LOVELYHONEY

    On September 25, 2009 at 2:29 pm


    REDONNED COMPY ERROR SORRRY PL

    I like the way you display nudity,
    In its most desired and natural form
    That’s what women were supposed to display,
    Like Adam and Eve never had a tailor,
    God willed it that way.

    Now humans who are
    Only 4 percent behind
    Chimp’s genetic profile
    Are fast catching up in the nude
    i.e.
    MEDITATION,
    NUDE YOGA
    Also as you have displayed,
    Beautiful naked women

  11. Nikita K

    On September 26, 2009 at 11:57 am


    Terribly interesting I must say! You show the right ingredients for the perfect attraction and I had NO clue men picked women for childbirth attributes. Loved reading it!

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