Flirty Signals! Have You Got What It Takes?
by We are all looking for a mate, how do you tell if the opposite sex is interested in you. Can we instinctively recognise the signs.
When a person wanting to attract or find a mate goes into a crowded room they will cast their eyes and heads around, scanning the room or they may just walk around the room. Even people in a relationship will do this, as the signal searching is instinctive in us all.
A woman who is attracted to a man will stare at him across a room. When she catches his eye she will hold the gaze for a couple of seconds then avert her eyes letting the man continue to look at her, then stare back again. Or she may lock onto his eyes not permitting him to move his eyes away, following this with a flick of the hair she has nearly got him nailed. If the woman wants to continue the courtship she will pout her lips filling them with engorged blood, a sign of arousal. Hopefully by then the male will have come over to her invited by her smile.
There are plenty of signals going on after the two have got together. As they sit or stand next to one another they will lean their bodies toward each other. Still at this stage it will be the woman who uses more of the flirting techniques to encourage, promote and advance the courtship. Men only seem to use part of their techniques, the come on and the men don’t always read the woman’s signals correctly, often mistaking them for a put off or a come and get me now!
The posture, leg position, eyes, head tilt to show the neck are all flirty signals. It would seem if a woman leans into you with their whole body facing you, leg touching yours, hands up to her neck or exposing her neck to look vulnerable and sexy, it is a flirt signal. Even the hands touching an object in a certain way is a signal. So what we conclude from this is make sure you are observant, look, listen and use your instinct. It would seem all men have to do is sit around waiting for the woman to make all the advances! But it doesn’t really work that way; it takes two kindred spirits to make good woopy.
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Post CommentPapa Sparks
On September 21, 2009 at 11:15 am
Another well-written and interesting literary styling from you; nicely done my friend!
Darla Cooke
On September 21, 2009 at 11:37 am
Interesting article.
Marie Milton
On September 21, 2009 at 11:48 am
Loved this Lilly : )) Loved it down to the ground!!!
It is funny, I just read this article after a sort-of-family-friend just left. We both give off signals to each other but it never goes any further ; )). Perhaps we\’re both waiting for the right time *wink* : )
Again, this is a great article on a VERY important subject : )) Good Job.
Lostash
On September 21, 2009 at 5:15 pm
I’m still waiting for the elusive soul-mate…..maybe my signals are on red all the time???
Rajesh Kumar Ram
On September 21, 2009 at 9:29 pm
very interesting indeed!
Jane Jane
On September 22, 2009 at 8:59 am
good post from you. interesting and fun to read.=)
BradONeill
On September 22, 2009 at 7:51 pm
Interesting article and here I am reading it after being committed for life. What does that say??? Oh well I enjoyed it even if it is something forever behind me. Sniffle.
LilRoastBeef
On September 24, 2009 at 5:32 pm
amazingly well written article, and I do notice that about myself (voice gets deeper, chest gets bigger, arms are wider)…..I probably look like a jack-a$$ when I do that…
LOVELYHONEY
On September 25, 2009 at 2:22 pm
i like the way u display nudity in its natural form thats what women were supposed to display , like ADAM AND EVE never had a tailor god willed it that way now humans which are only 4 percent behind chimps genetic profile are fast catching up in nude MEDITATION ,NUDE YOGA and as you have displayed beutiful naked women sufficient to attract the mounting dominating was the word i was seeking male libido
LOVELYHONEY
On September 25, 2009 at 2:29 pm
REDONNED COMPY ERROR SORRRY PL
I like the way you display nudity,
In its most desired and natural form
That’s what women were supposed to display,
Like Adam and Eve never had a tailor,
God willed it that way.
Now humans who are
Only 4 percent behind
Chimp’s genetic profile
Are fast catching up in the nude
i.e.
MEDITATION,
NUDE YOGA
Also as you have displayed,
Beautiful naked women
Nikita K
On September 26, 2009 at 11:57 am
Terribly interesting I must say! You show the right ingredients for the perfect attraction and I had NO clue men picked women for childbirth attributes. Loved reading it!