Four Elements to a Better Sex Life

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2.      Don’t be afraid to try new things- When you are involved in a new relationship, it is important that you are not afraid to try new experiments with your partner.  For example, I was watching an old episode of Desperate Housewives, it was the one where Bri and her first husband were having problems in the bedroom.  Her first husband had all these different fetishes and Bri, being the prude that she is was not into it.  She was more concerned with her own feelings  instead of her husband’s.  Although, Bri didn’t agree with what her husband was into, it wouldn’t have hurt her to go with the flow, after all she is with her husband, in the privacy of their own bedroom.  We must be able to think outside of the box every once and awhile.

3.      Be creative- I’ve spoken to a lot of couples and they all told me that they were intrigued by their partners creativity, and when I heard creativity, I instantly thought of role playing.  Make your sexual experience a fun one.  For example, you and your partner can create certain scenarios such as; cops and robbers-I think this would be a fun one because the cop could fall madly in love with a bad girl (bank robber), this could be fulfilling a fantasy.  Now if you are going to role play, then you must go all the way, I’m talking about purchasing costumes.  If a woman is playing a bank robber, then she would have to wear something real skimpy and sexy to heighten the level of intensity.  There are so many scenarios that can be played, this is why it is important to be very creative.  Another thing, men tend to desire different women, so it would be helpful if you develop a new personality-character, from the Caribbean or something.  Try to use an accent if you can, this will in fact turn your partner on, if it is done right.

4.      Prepare to seduce- One of the most intriguing situations in a relationship is for the both of you  to expect the unexpected.  Your relationship should never become predictable there should always be something to look forward to.  In essence,  there should never be dull moments.  Always plan on wowing your partner with seductive surprises, whether it is drawing your partner a bath surrounded by candles or wearing edible lingerie for dessert.  The sky is the limit.

These are just a few suggestions I have that should enable you to become more creative in the bedroom.  Break free from redundancy and begin to explore your partner.  Determine your partners inner most fantasies and try to fulfill it.   Find new ways to satisfy your partner, the goal is to increase satisfaction at home, so that they would not stray away from the home in search of a different experience that could have been provided at home in the first place.