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Get Aroused First and Then Have Great Sex

Easy ways to have explosive sex.

A man cannot have sexual intercourse if he is not aroused. A woman can have sexual intercourse if she is not aroused because of the nature of her sexual organs. But why have sex with a woman who is not sexually aroused. My man, have you ever heard of rape? Do not ever try to have sex with a woman who does not feel like having sex. Even if you are married to her! You may end up behind bars, dude seriously.

Arousal is possibly the most critical ingredient required to have awesome sex. All the great sex sessions I’ve ever experienced have happened when I’ve been optimally aroused. Perhaps the only downside is that it makes one reach orgasm or ejaculate quicker. When you are fully aroused, every part of your body becomes extremely sensitive to every sexual touch and your breathing becomes very deep and heavy…it does make one go crazy and feel like screaming out loud. It’s a good thing that I am not aroused to this extent each and every time that I have sex. That would be harmful to my well-being because sex would always be on my mind. Having sex on your mind all the time is not good mental health. It’s just the same as having a cocaine addiction.

Here are a few things that I’ve learnt about arousal and how it affects our sex lives and generally our relationships with our partners.

The most important thing that I have learnt is that you should never have sex with someone who is not aroused sufficiently to have sexual intercourse. Women say that one of the greatest sexual humiliations occurs when a man tries to have sex with them using a half-erect penis. It is very embarrassing and it can put off a woman from ever wanting to have sex with you ever again. She might start thinking that she does not turn you on sufficiently or that you are probably never going to be able to please her in that way ever. For men, having sex with a half-aroused woman will only make your performance anxiety problems worse. Great sex is psychological, what more can I say?

Another thing that I have learnt is that we are all unique individuals when it comes to sex. No two people are aroused the same way with the same methods. This makes communication between lovers essentially important. Take time to really understand what turns your partner on by also accepting and encouraging guidance from them whenever they try to teach you how to best arouse them. With time you will learn how to get the best responses from them during foreplay and sex.

The final thing I am going to mention is a no-brainer but it’s a crucial point that a lot of people overlook: There is no way that you can get fully aroused if you are distracted. Some people can use sex to get their mind off other things but most of us cannot fully enjoy the sex experience if we’ve also got a lot of other things on our minds. The best time to engage in a sexual activity is when you are most relaxed. This way you and your partner can truly focus on pleasuring each other.

Please read the following strategies to help launch your arousal to stratospheric levels.

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  1. Questioner

    On March 8, 2008 at 7:14 pm


    Nice article. It is known that a man gets aroused when he thinks psychologically that he wants to have sex and most importantly when he sees certain parts of a woman – what leads to erection and further…

    When a woman is aroused, her reproduction organs become wet as a sign of it. But is it just psychological or does she get this feeling when she sees something (Visual)? – In short, how does a woman get aroused?

  2. ilona

    On April 21, 2008 at 7:21 pm


    Guess it’s very individual for women. For me there’s lots of things. Yes, it is visual, i.e. certain body parts of a man can be arousing. Kissing is a huge turn on, some women can climax through kissing. Willingless of a man to please is a turn on for me. Asking what I want is a turn on (some girls may feel too embarrasse though to talk about it, so it depends). Dirty talking is a huge turn on for some. However, the main thing to ensure your girl is hot for you is not to rush her, let her relax, touch her, kiss her everywhere, ENJOY it. And let her WAIT. The longer the better.

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